It really irritates me how many people claim to be looking for the love of their life....yet when you try to give it to them they shun it or run from it. It's very annoying. I get many who claim to be SOOOOO interested in me. So I am like, "ok, no prob" ...and I try to begin open conversations. Yet, these people think I am stupid and can not see them telling other men the exact same things on here. My philosophy is "actions speak louder than words". Whether it is on here or in real life. Don't tell me how interested you are and how badly you want to meet and take things further if you are telling others the same crap. That's games to me and I don't play games. I am a grown adult.....if I want to play games I have a son to do that with. Whether you are involved in person or on-line there is still an issue of trust, respect, and fidelity.
Sorry but when I take interest in someone...it is only in that one person. I am not naive' enough to fall into the attention trap that I see many fall into on this site. I have more self-esteem and am more secure in myself to fall for every line fed me. I'm not an idiot. I know who is genuine and who isn't. Just because you may think I am not aware of it...believe me...I am. Here's a hint..I don't compete. Why? because I feel that if someone wants to genuinely take interest in me or be with me...then I should be there FIRST choice and all of their attention should be on me as all of mine would be on them.
Always treat others as you would want to be treated. You can't want love if you are unwilling to give it. It just doesn't work that way and I refuse to ever be used or in a one sided relationship again. When I do get into another relationship...I will make certain beyond any doubt that it will be my last. THIS is why I have been single for over a year. I don't want a confused child. I want someone who is determined and confident enough to know what they want and go after it....full throttle.
Don't try to toy with my mind or emotins...I assure you I am already 5 steps ahead of you in realizing your game.
Peace,
Brian
