I had the pleasure(or misfortune) To have to sit through and provide security for divorce court. I find it amazing that people that once professed undying love for each other ripping at each others throats. I can understand it is difficult to decide who gets what. But I have seen people fighting over who gets ownership of the dog, and if visitation is allowed. I am not saying who is at fault the male or the female. I think the worse part of it is when the kids become bargaining chips in the divorce. Hearing "You aren't gonna see the kids if you don't pay" or " I am not gonna pay cause I don't get to see my kids." I think at times there should be a test given before marriages are allowed or before you have kids. Just remember we are all the same and treat each other with respect and kindness
