I just heard from a friend hes getting a divorce with his wife. They were my neighbors and very good people. I'm obviously happy that they are going to remain friends. They have no kids. I'm kinda finding myself scared of the whole divorce issue. The divorce ratio was around at one point maybe 2O-30 percent now more or less 60 percent.
Speaking from experience nobody wins in these things. Its not like I'm afraid of a relationship because of this I just dont want to see anyone get hurt. I'm usually the one afraid to say anything without the risk of offending someone I really like. If she takes it the wrong way she has every right to hit me really hard. Any part of the body is fair play.
I dont think I know anyone that's married anymore.. I witnessed first hand how bad things just go south after a divorce through my folks.
Maybe one couple but offline not anyone I can recall. its either divorced maybe also a bit bitter after it or widowed.
Tell you the truth when I found out what was going on it was pretty ugly. I knew what my father was doing but I did not realize how bad he was doing it. I didnt know he was seeing this woman and planning to leave my Mom. My Mom had a few guy friends and I didn't see anything going on.
Cancer is not something you can catch and I just think its pretty low for someone to give up on someone they should care about when they are sick. I have a sense of morality and ethics and I would feel lower than dirt if I did that.
On a side note as always I have been exercising at least once a day now. Twice on weekends. Also I have been turning into quite a clean freak lately. Actually it does feel good after I'm all done with the dishes so I can relax. I sacrificed any time I wanted to take for camping to work on painting the house. its getting too cold to even think of camping right now. I miss the outdoors and I would have borrowed the camper if Chuck didn't sell it. This is the first weekend in 7 months I have been wearing socks.
The house looks better than green (its all white now). I think the only thing we need to work on is the ramp outside leading to the porch. I replaced the screen door this morning leading to the back porch. I need to add a railing to the ramp yet. I added some new pics today as well I went a little camera happy....I have been sticking close to my salad dinner diet. I really want to lose at least 20 pounds. I would feel alot better. Been thinking of taking up walking too..
whohoo lol
