i just want to know why a person cant be who they want to be without someone always tring to make changes either to there lifestyleor there personality i say let people be who they are and how they want to be without making changes thats what makes them individuals it doesnt matter if they smoke or not straight or gay good or bad smart or dumd the point is if everyone changed into what everyone wanted us to be then eventually everyone would end up being the same and that would just be to boring the difference in people is what draws others to them thats why we have friends and go to parties and get on websites to be around differnt people..so i say just be who are be proud of it and dont let no one change you .......god bless and enjoy what life has to offer