PinkY & The TurnTable TeRRorisT
@ CherryTAP mentions in their 2006-12-03 23:07:00 commented upon my
Just Friends blog posting that:
"i find that the key words FINDING mr /mrs right is where ppl go wrong you wont find them when you are looking....they appear from no where
When we are trying to fit the person to match what we like..we never find the right one..cause they are what we drew up...and the mask is on..until later we find they were what we didnt want
the one we desire is most of the time...right there.....be it about this topic....the one u confide in most...and dont realize it...the one that we are fearing the contact cause of rejectin of simple conversation..or the one that doesnt even see it themself......."
They are absolutely correct. If when you meet people and decide to take it to a new level, one has to have in their own minds, just what Mr./Mrs. Right might be defined to themselves. What characteristics that they can live with and those that that they can't live with. As we get older, sometimes, through our own experiences, our visions of Mr./Mrs. Right will be redefined in our minds over and over; additionally, in a sense, as we get older (while we know the things where we have definately drawn the line) we become a little less picky (for example concerning looks - that bit of a belly in a man, that bit of a hips on a woman, etc.)
So, before you even consider possibly taking it to the next level, have you a vision of your Mr./Mrs. Right in your mind -- and, what might that vision be????
The question, too, lies in how committed are you to that vision? Are you really, truly open to possibilities that you might not have considered before???
