I know its human for ppl not to understand everything in life but a friend was talking to me yesterday about not understanding something that happened in His life. Sometimes when bad things happen to us, we will question "why", "why me", "what did I do to deserve this". I honestly think that bad things happen to us to make us stronger, emotionally and physically. It seems he has had nothing but a string of bad luck thru out his life. I think He needs to step back and see where he is in his life, and question, "how did I end up here", and " Is this where I want to be"? He should then make a mental note to NOT repeat the same mistakes. I also believe that you become the company you keep. I think the world of my friend and wish only good things for him. I know he has a long road ahead of him and its going to be hard. I pray that he is able to pull thru and overcome anything that is thrown at him. If I could help him , i would, but i feel he needs to focus on himself. We all come to that point in our lives that we need to step back from other ppl and just focus on ourselves. Its hard to do that because most ppl can't be alone, they need to feel loved and wanted and needed. I really feel that if he devotes a few months or even maybe a year, of just focusing on his life, he will come out on top. He should know what He has waiting at the finish line , someone standing there with open arms and ready to accept him for the great man and friend he is. :)
Ok, enough of that, i love to blog and i tend to ramble on.. till next time.
Hugggs and kisses
be safe and sane
