ABOUT "MY BAR TAB" ALERTS:
THESE CAN GET TOO NUMEROUS & MIXED UP TO
DEAL WITH IN THE NORMAL MODE OF DISPLAY.
Everything is normally displayed mixed up & in order received.
To view in 3 separate sections -- in 3 columns :
1. for me -- things requiring attention/action on my part
2. things friends are doing
3. other stuff .e.g. newbies coming in if you want to check them out
This item #1 is mostly all that I am interested in.
You click on "see all" in order to see the bar tab in this fashion.
These lists are ordered from MOST RECENT ENTRY, to earlier.
I just look at those which occurred from last time I was signed on.
In case of "For me" you can also check for more specific categories, but I don't do that.