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Most of you know my situation if not check out my blog entitled "My Life" and it'll explain a little bit of what my life is like for the most part.  But for now on to the reason of this blog...Dating.

 

I was always kind of shy around women and never really did the whole dating thing.  I guess I just never had any self confidence when it came down to it.  But, when I was about 19-20 I started to come out of my shell and found it easier to talk to some women.  Then my health went down hill and subsequently ended up where I am today, in a wheelchair.  It seems as though by shyness is back ten fold and I don't know what to do. 

 

Every morning as I go through my daily routine with my aide the same thoughts go through my head...Will I ever find that special someone or will I end up alone?  If I do find someone how will everything work out in the long run?  I can do some things on my own but for most part I need a fair amount of assistance.  If I end up finding that special someone what will she think?  Will she be willing to help?  Will she be able to look past my outward appearance and handicapped to see the real me? How will I tell her everything that I am to apprehensive to put here?

 

I mean a lot of people I talk to say they would date a guy in a wheelchair and I believe them, but things are different when it's more then just a question through an email or instant message.  I am a good guy (at least I think I am).  I am the same guy I was before all this happened to me.  I will never change how I act with somethings or even who I am and would never ask her to do same. 

 

I guess I am just afraid that most people are going to judge me by my appearance and not take the opportunity to get to know the real me.

 

Ok, I think I rambled enough for one day.

 

~Vinny

 

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