>NOTE: If you want to know the RIGHT way to
get women to notice you AND respond to you, you
need to know how to become the kind of man who
NATURALLY attracts women. To find out how, read
this:
On Being A Man
This Dating Tip is going to be short and
to the point.
There's a HUGE mistake that I see guys making
ALL THE TIME when it comes to women and dating.
And it goes a little somethin' like this...
GUYS OFTEN MAKE THE MISTAKE OF "SELLING" TOO
FAR IN ADVANCE INSTEAD OF JUST GETTING TO THE
NEXT STEP.
For example, let's say that a guy is talking
to a woman at a coffee shop. Maybe she's sitting
at the next table over and they strike up a
conversation about the weather.
Further, let's say that the woman is unusually
attractive and the man is unusually AVERAGE in his
approach and method of communicating that he's interetsted.
This guy might say something like:
"So, let me guess... you have a boyfriend, right?"
Or...
"OK, I have to tell you... I find you really
attractive and I'd like to take you out sometime."
I'm sure you've seen this kind of thing a
thousand times in your life.
But what's going on here? Is the guy actually
asking a casual question?
HELL NO.
The guy is literally communicating that he'd
like to PURSUE A RELATIONSHIP with the woman.
Yea, and even worse, he's doing it within a
few minutes of meeting her!
Explained differently, the guy is trying to
sell the woman on a relationship in the future
based on five minutes of conversation.
And what happens? Of course...
The woman puts up the resistance INSTANTLY.
It's all kinds of wrong in all kinds of ways.
It's WUSSY behavior in its purest form.
It's one of the biggest mistakes men make,
period.
And of course this is only the tip of the
iceberg.
Guys do this kind of "selling too far ahead"
stuff all the way along.
Guys ask things like:
"So, am I your type?"
...and...
"How do you like me so far?"
...and...
"What do you look for in an ideal partner?"
Ahhhhhhh!
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!
You can't do this stuff! If you do you'll
create an instant barrier to success!
So what's the alternative?
I really thought you'd never ask.
The alternative is to know all the steps
from the first meeting all the way to the bedroom
(and beyond), and ONLY WORK ON GETTING TO THE
NEXT STEP in each situation.
If you're talking to a girl, just get her
email.
If you're talking on the phone, just arrange
a meeting for a cup of tea.
If you're kissing, just go back to your place
to be alone.
Never again try to sell past the very next step.
THE HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT
If you own a copy of my eBook "Double Your
Dating", then open up the bonus booklet called
"Bridges: How To Go From One Step To The Next...
From The First Meeting To The Bedroom" and read
it again.
Get a clear picture in your mind of each of
the 10 steps that are listed in that booklet, and
get a clear mental image of how each step fits into
and flows into the next.
Notice how you might be doing things at
different steps that are trying to sell too far in
advance. For instance, you might realize that you
always get too deep into family and relationship
talk with women before you even kiss them.
Think about how you're going to ONLY GET TO THE
VERY NEXT STEP in your particular situation... and
then plan exactly how you're going to do it in the
future.
In the booklet you'll get some great ideas for
how to transition from one step to the next, so use
them.
If you HAVEN'T YET downloaded your copy of my
eBook (and your free copy of my "Bridges" bonus
booklet), then you need to do that first. Go to:
Double Your Dating eBook
...to get it.
Read it, then go back and do the homework. This
ONE piece of the puzzle will make a BIG difference.
And if you already have my ebook and are ready
for a more in-depth, advanced education in how
to attract, approach, and date ANY woman you want,
take a look at the free clips from my "Advanced
Dating Techniques" program right here:
Advanced Series
Talk to you again soon!
Your Friend,
David D.