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What are you waiting for?
If he asks you to make plans (be it dinner or video chat) and you accept, if you have to cancel for whatever reason or worse don't show, its 100% YOUR responsibility to make the next plans - if he will even talk to you anymore.
Hard to get is over. You aren't the only one with options.
OWN HIS DICK.
Men who are with women that do it just the way they like, that special trick only you know, at the time of day he likes it, hitting that certain spot while you do that one thing while your leg is hanging over that one part... what else is there for him to go looking for?
(Pathological cheaters are exempt from this one of course.)
Throw your personal rules out the window.
The more difficult you make it to connect and share intimacy, the more likely it is the guy will find you not worth the trouble. It isn't about putting out on the first night, or getting your skypebone on the first time you vidchat - but if you aren't willing to meet halfway on ANY issue, then you should get used to being alone.
Getting the boy you've had your eye on to hit on you is as simple as saying, "You should buy me a drink" with eye contact and a smile. Men assume the best women are taken... and this lets him know you're single and that his company is welcome.
Vigorously seek out and attend to what pleases your lover. If you don't, someone else will.
Ask questions in a way that makes him feel safe and secure, so he knows he won't get "in trouble". Explore. Find out what makes him tick. And then begin integrating what he likes into your bedroom, your texts, your eye contact, your "unintentional" brush against him.
