I just don't understand what the problem is, when you decide that you are going to met someone just to basically hook-up, that you just can't know them just a little bit first!! I am by no means a prude, but my god, I would love to be able to at least have a connection of some sort with the person that I might hook-up with. I don't by no means what to marry the dude, just have some sort of something, I don't know, something. I just didn't think that was to much to ask, maybe I'm wrong. Let me know!!