why the hell does evey one think its so fucc'd up when you leave a relationship with one person and it has been over for years and become interested in some one else who is related to your ex ? i mean its a grown up thing that is between them and it has nothing to do with the ex or has no intntion to cause any problems it is just two grown ass people that are wanting to get to know one another ..is it something that is taboo or just a reason for people to talk?