Cyber Love: Real or Fantasy?
Is it real? Or life like we would wish it were?
All of us ,
who have been on the "net" for any length of time,
know that we develop friendships on here.
Strong Friendships
And, after a period of time,
some of these friendships become
emotional bonding.
Bonding that few,
if any of us,
were consciously seeking.
Yet when we realize what has happened,
how involved we have become ,
we honestly feel this other person is a "soul mate".
The one person on this earth we have
searched for/needed,
all of our adult life.
But we need to stop,
back away
and realize our "special friend" has just as many faults,
maybe more
than the spouse/special friend we have in real life.
If we both can accept that each have faults,
that neither are perfect
and both are free to pursue the relationship,
then there is a good chance
the "cyber love" can become "real life love.
When one or both already have a spouse,
and possibly a family
then the "cyber love" is fantasy.
What we wish our lives were
What we would like our life to be.
To be forever young enough,
healthy enough
carefree,
and wealthy enough
that all we have to do is indulge in what we enjoy.
Fantasy
Yes, "cyber love" can and does
carry over into the real world.
But when it does,
there are two people who realize that,
after the night/nights of love
when morning comes
there are jobs to go to
bills to be paid
yards to be mowed
and dust STILL gets on the furniture.
For most of us
"Cyber love" is like this picture
A Goddess and A Man
Fantasy.
