Well thank you for getting this far down the page ;) I know it's a lot to scroll through, sometimes I wish you could move this portion to the middle of the page at the top. I put requests into "babyj" all the time to see if the layout can change a bit.... but we will see.

I am a very real and down to earth person. I have very real friends on here and I am also looking to make more. You can never have too many friends and if you are in San Diego or any of the other cities I mention being in for travel (Las Vegas, St. Louis, San Francisco, Etc.) pls feel free to contact me and begin a dialogue. I love getting in the car and just going wherever or meeting people while Im on business and just going out and having a good time. I think I am starting to understand that a lot of people use this site for hook ups and cybersex but I have better things to do with my time here than that. So moving right along....

As a note, I don't utilize the "Family" categorization on this site as many others do (there are no naked pics that my fam sees that you think you should be seeing and aren't).. My family consists of people that are my TRUE LIFE friends. They are the people I know in real life, in person, chill out and have dinner and drinks, go clubbing, etc. Some of my top friends are people I know in person as well that I couldn't fit into family because of limitations. I just ask that you please respect how I utilize the family and don't shoutbox or pm me asking to be put in my family. I arrange my family and friends as I see fit and I don't care to be told how to do it otherwise.

So on to the meat of this profile.... the REAL "about me" is in my blogs somewhere. But a snippet of that I have left here for those cerebral individuals that would like to get to know me better:

About ~*CutePsychoKttn*~
I am definitely a walking contradiction; an enigma in most
senses of the word.


I am happily married; completely satisfied and fulfilled with my life and my partner; but my marriage is flexible and I desire more from life; from people I interact with, and from the experiences that are allowed us in this lifetime. Pushing the envelope of social standards is what I crave; polyamorous is what I am. I truly believe that drama is not a negative; but the spice of life that makes this time we have been blessed with worth experiencing.

I belong to sites and have posted personal ads where "getting laid" is the primary objective for lack of a more straight forward avenue I can follow to obtain what I pursue (as sex is not my number one priority). I
prefer the intensity of meeting and connecting with someone new and exciting, but then the prolonged period of learning each and every nuance of that person. Maybe we develop a relationship full of passion and spontaneous interludes, but maybe we only develop a friendship of caring and sharing- ONLY TIME WILL TELL (if u don't have it to invest, then we will never know).

I know that I am not for everyone and am accepting of that, but I am intensely impacted by the negative energy (and judgments) that some people attempt to force upon me and mine here. The anonymity of the internet seems to bring out the worst in certain people. Ignorance seems to drive such reactions from my observations. So many proclaim to be open minded but are confusing sexually uninhibited for this which is only a facet of its entirety. They are not one in the same. To judge anyone's reason for being here is clearly not even close to open minded.

I am completely transparent however opaquely complicated. I am simple to please but overtly complex in nature. I am conservative in some of my thoughts and the way I carry myself; but I have participated most of my adult life in alternative lifestyles and am genuinely curious to learn more. I am an intellectual but sometimes I sacrifice spelling accuracy and correct grammar for whatever gets the point across in the least amount of time/space due to impatience. I am completely grounded and level headed while being completely clinically psychotic. Welcome to my world; Cute psycho polyamorous kttn.

As I mentioned, I am married, and I have a bf that I absolutely adore (lesson learned - this one doesn't have time to be picking up chics to screw on the fu ;)). I prefer my situation to be more like a family - "My Big Happy Family" (trust me, I think you might be very confused at this point and you will either work yourself through it, or let it go). I am fiercely protective and loyal to my "family". We work together to make sure everyone is happy, cared for, and loving life. I love making new friends, and interacting with people (the exchange of thoughts and feelings and emotions and energy is just exhilarating to me. If there is a connection there on a physical/emotional/mental level then I am totally down to delve into it and see where it goes).

I do not treat fubar like the "white noise" it truly should be treated as. In my world, each person has value.... no matter where I met them. I don't discount or disrespect people just because we met here, versus some other place in space and time. It's really outrageous to me that in this age of technology that the majority of the people here still think that it's acceptable to treat people shitty here, because its merely the internet. Karma apparently doesn't apply to our actions here. So I'm thinking that for us to get along, you should be on the same page with this mentality. Otherwise you are just wasting your time and mine. (that is if you made it to this point anyways....)

Additionally... because this area can just get longer and longer as I discover more things about myself I just decided to supplement the "About Me" section in my blog under the same name "About Me". Its a place where I can expand on who I truly am in thought and spirit and even address certain situations that transpire here as well. I hope you will take a look sometime. Im definitely open to answering any questions, as long as you are respectful to me.

*kttn*