As usual it's hard to know what to say. I'm married, but we live seperatly. We have, and have always had, an open relationship. We've chosen to live seperatly due to issues with my wife's children. Let's just say it's better this way. We get along very well, and spend at least part of almost every weekend together. I'm here to make friends, and chat. If something more should develop, that's ok too! I've taken drastic steps to remove most of the stress and drama from my life. I don't need it online either! I believe honesty is the most important quality a person can posess. I give it, and I expect it. Ask me anything and I will tell you. If you don't want an honest answer, don't ask! Size, race, looks mean nothing to me. I base my feelings about someone, man or woman, on personality, attitude, and honesty. I am not here to build a large friend list, accumlate points and ratings, or play popularity games. If I ask you to be a friend, it's because I feel we can talk. If I add you, and we don't I have no problems using the delete button! If you come to my page and rate me or my pics, I will return the favor. If you request me to add you, at least include a short note! I do have an offline life, and I work a lot of hours. I'm not on here all the time, but I check in regularly. My comments section is not meant to be used to promote your lounge, auction, contest, or anything else. Comments of this nature will be deleted as soon as I find them!