I honestly giggle to myself everytime one of these "no drama" dudes comes up in my shoutbox wanting to converse and ends up leaving a trail of drama a mile wide.
First off.... any dude who goes on and on and on and on and on about how he hates drama..... is so full of sh*t its not even funny. Its those very dudes that are starting the sh*t and bringing it on themselves. I try my damndest to stay away from these guys cause "projection" is their main reason for existance in most cases (projection is where the person with the issues projects onto whomever they are interacting with, their issues as if they were not their own. It gets rather complicated as it is a very twisted rendition of reverse psychology to some degree).
With that said..... I find it even more humorous how guys define most chics as "Crazy" or "Psycho" (see my screen name - LOL) or "Insane".
Here are a few things that will indicate you are "Insane" in some guys books:
1. You are emotional (seems most guys just dont understand this so you must be insane if you get your feelings hurt or have emotions)
2. You have an opinion that is not typically agreeing with said opponents opinion. And to actually have an intelligent argument that supports your opinion makes you even more Psycho.
3. Thinking for yourself on any level definitely makes you insane.
This is a short list but it will certainly grow as I become more enlightened ;)