My son called me from school today, he was sick. The nurse told me he probably had the stomach flu that's been going around. I had a doctor's appointment that I just couldn't miss at 12:30. I call my husband at work, to ask him if he could come home and just sit with Matt while I was at my appointment. I was going to be gone like 2 hours at the most. He tells me, he won't come home, that work was too important. He also went on to say that if I had a JOB I would have gone and picked him up, taken him home and left him to go back to work. I was shocked and disgusted. I would never leave my child at home to vomit his guts up so I could get back to a damn job.
So, after a few choice words I hung up the phone. What kind of man does this? Acts this way? Chooses his job over his kids? I really don't think a chinook would lose a valuable day with out him there for a whooping 2 hours.
At this point Im now thinking..is he worth this? When he got home tonight he wanted a hug, I wanted to punch him in the face. And you know what?? The LAST thing he asked about was how Matt was feeling. Matt was sitting in the chair across from me and he didn't even speak to him. He asked me how he was doing in front of him. That really chapped my ass. Why are men like this? Are they that unfeeling, insensitive,stupid,ignorant?? I am at the point where I could really just kick him out. AND YES..I DONT NEED HIM TO SURVIVE..so if you're a guy reading this..don't assume he brings in the money that pays the big bills..that would be ME...So where does it go from here? I never mentioned to him that I was sick.
Yes I did go to my appointment, but I had someone check on him while i was gone. NO hes not a lil kid hes 16. But I didn't want him alone here while I was gone with no one checking on him. So, I have a fever they cant explain a few other things going on. Will I tell his insensitive ass? NOPE, HELL NO..why bother.. unless it concerns him or affects him he doesn't care anyways.
