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okay i stole this from one of my frat brothers blogs..... I found it very insightful....and thought provoking.... I know this guy very well.....and knows exactly that what he speaks is the truth.... I will post my experience in another bulletin..... and you guys are welcome to compare and contrast.... here goes: Category: Romance and Relationships Over the years, I've played every game that you can think of when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS. I've lied, cheated, turned the tables to make the woman think that she was the one that was wrong, and Hell, I've even acted a fool before Birthdays, Valentine's, and Christimas and eventually came back right after New Years just so I wouldn't have to buy a gift(ain't that some bull? I know, right). Growing up, I never really knew what a successful relationship was suppose to be about because I never saw one. All I ever thought in relationships was that a man was SUPPOSE to be a mack and if you didn't have more than three girls on your TEAM, you were considered LAME. Me, being naive to that fact went out with that frame of mind and tried to get every woman that I saw. Even though I had a girlfriend who loved me dearly and loved my dirty drawers, I still had 3 other women all at the same time thinking that I was the "ONE" and they couldn't seem themselves living without me. Little did they know that everything I was telling them, I was telling to the other ladies. I was the star quarterback in college, a Nupe, I stood out a lot from the other guys on campus because of the way I dressed and the way I acted, so that sparked a lot of women's interest and I was more than happy to oblige. After college, I played pro ball, had a nice car, money, my OWN spot, and it just didn't get any better than that. The easier it got, the more my hunger grew and I just had to have the best, so therefore, I went after the socialites, the lawyers, teachers who were my coworkers, the so called models, etc. I just had to have to ONE with the pretty face, the big booty or the sexy lips or the one who had a walk that just wouldn't quit. But after awhile I started feeling guilty and ashamed of who I had become. I was an insensitive, thoughtless, careless, uncaring so-called man and I only thought of my needs and wants instead of others. The girl who I was with left me after we had been together for 7 years and after that, I had nothing left. After countless attempts to get her back in my life, she completely turned her back on me and now we're no longer friends. No matter what I did, she refused to speak to me and even though I asked her to marry me, she just walked away from me with me down on one knee and the ring still in my hand(I bet you're thinking he got exactly what he deserved and you're absolutely right). As men, it is truly up to us to hold ourselves accountable for our actions and stop blaming our women. As men, we have to stand up for our women, be real to them, be real for them, protect them, cherish them, love them, pray for them, pray with them, etc. I'm not writing any of this for cool points or because I feel that I am obligated to uplift women after having broken their hearts and spirits in my past, it's mainly because I care. Our women have so much to offer, but we're too dumb to realize it until it's too late. Fellas, we gotta get our shit together before we realize that it's too late to make that change. Ladies, don't keep blaming yourselves for our faults and transgressions. Keep being the strong, sensitive, loving, giving, nurturing creatures that you are and have always been. Now that I'm older, I've matured a lot and in my quest to be a better MAN, I hope that it's not too late for me to find that ONE whom I've longed for. After 2 years of being single, I've had more than enough time to sit back and take a look at who I was and who I want to be. The person that I use to be is definitely not someone I want to be now or in the future. I'm not in a hurry, but now I understand how a woman needs to be nurtured and cared for the same way a man does. Dating several women at the same time allowed me to compare and contrast, but it never let me cherish any of them and I never got the chance to see them for who they truly were and now I just hope that I don't continue to reap what I've sowed in the past.
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