im only writing this because a friend of mine was fussing about there S/O (this is not towards anyone)
communication is the key to almost anything and
everything especially in a relationship whether
it be a marriage,friendship,or dating
there has to an equivalent amount of communication
with both parties involved not just one making all
the effort to communicate and build a stronger
relationship any relationship is 50/50
not 50/00 or 100/00...BOTH HAVE TO FREAKING TALK!:)
and yes there are certain things that some girls
think that a guy should say or do first instead of
her making the 1st move ha some of you guys better
wake up lol that girl wont be around forever ya know but this is the 21st century after all and
some woman need to grow some balls and speak up
just like some men need to too
but seriously you dont just talk to someone all day everyday for months on end and build a
relationship with them and then decide one
day to disappear on them for a day or 2 or even
more with no phone calls or text or anything
and just pop back up expecting them to be all
gitty and cheerful that your there nah they are gonna wanna know why you just up and disappeared for that length of time and it better me one hell of an explanation too not something lame and corny
and dont ever use the lame as line saying you did
not have any service to call ummm thats why god
gave man the idea to make pay phones they work
wonders
and FYI just because someone disappears for that
length of time does not mean they were fucking
around some ppl find it better to deal with
things when alone when they are depressed or
going through a hard time or what have you
so dont be so trigger happy to jump the gun
and assume the worse
the point being is there has to be communication
between the both of you if there is not and
just one making the effort without a substantial amount of communication on both parts the relationship....whatever kind it may be will become stale and a stale relationship is not a relationship at all nor is it a very stable one to be and will more than likely end due to no communication
blah blah blah im done..........i so need to be
in school i swear i do