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I certainly hope not, but in a few of my latest experiences it seems that some of us have forgotten how to communicate or communicate effectively. Now, I am certainly no expert here as far as communicating goes but I have a drive and desire to communicate, speak my truth , listen and be not merely heard but understood. It seems that those I have attempted to communicate with are truly dropping the ball as far as I have noticed. To tell me that you truly wish to communicate with me but you never respond to my emails, you don’t answer my calls, and "forget" to call me when you said you would is truly grounds for getting kicked off the friends list (plus it truly indicates disinterest and there is no point in being strung for your enjoyment). Sure, things come up and create situations that render communication impossible. But EVERYTIME that you told me that you would call? EVERYTIME I call you? Surely you jest! (LOL) Who do you think you are kidding with this BS? A handful of times I will be open minded to, but consistent and epic failure to communicate is unacceptable and wont be tolerated. Pretty simple concept to communicating in my book; speak your truth without fear of ramifications.
Another point I would like to make would be to those who get with me for not understanding their particular specific situation but have not truly communicated what their specific situation is. What the hell? How can you possibly be mad at me for what I have no knowledge of? I don’t read minds and I know very few people who do. So it is essentially your responsibility to either communicate with me or stop getting frustrated with me (or whomever) for the lack of communication. A lot of DRAMA could easily be avoided by heeding this rule. And we all know how everyone seems to want to avoid any DRAMA they might incur in life (these would be the individuals who don’t care to experience anything in life, much less grow and be enlightened from the experiences).
