A's blog: "This is who I am."

Just for the sake of clarification and the need to get a few things straight, I'm going to write this blog. So, here we go.

First off, I write my blogs as a way to express my thoughts and feelings. To get out all the things I normally keep bottled up. In my blogs, I NEVER name names, I never make statements that are pointed directly at anyone, nor do I write them to hurt anyone. If you don't like the things you find when you read my blogs, here's a bit of advice, don't read them!

Secondly, if at any point you feel the need to take my blogs personally, well then I guess that's your prerogative, or you feel guilty about something I've said in my blog. I won't apologize for what I feel or how I feel it. Maybe if you take it personally you should ask yourself if what I've said is right. Then again, it probably is right, and I'm justified in how I feel. Do not come to me and try to make me feel as if I've done something wrong by wanting to purge myself of my own feelings. I shouldn't have to field endless messages from people on my YIM or in my SB or in private messages from people who feel like my words and my personal feelings are an attack on them. Take some responsibility for yourself and your own actions. Whatever I write about in my blogs may or may not be about you, you don't know, so don't make assumptions. If you want to know if I'm writing about you, the least you could do is ask me rather than making accusations. 

Third, and this goes along with the whole naming names thing, I would NEVER call anyone out in my blogs, status messages or any other way that makes it public knowledge. That's disrespectful and irresponsible. If I have to call someone out, I go directly to that person, so do not undermine me and insinuate that I'm that type of person. Added to that, if that's the type of person you think that I am, then you really don't know me at all or you never made the attempt to really get to know me in the first place. 

Lastly, my status messages aren't directed at any one person. My status messages are normally quotes or song lyrics that are a reflection of what's going on in my own mind, and are related to the way I feel about certain issues or problems I'm having. If you don't like my status messages, don't read those either. I'm not here to make you happy, I'm not here to do what you want me to do, and I'm not here to make everything all peaches and cream for you. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. There are dark places and grey areas.

So again, I reiterate, if you don't like what you read in my status messages or my blogs, don't read any of them. And just for the record, this particular blog isn't directed at any one person but to the masses, so if you want to take this personally, go right ahead. It's not my problem.