Toxic Vixen's blog: "Life in General"

tuedsday my husband hears our 4yr old running in the house. we tell him many times not to run because he can hurt himself or break something. he wakes up and spanks him. that night him and my mom begin to argue because the spanking left a bruise. argueing (sp??) about how the cops can be called out and other shit like that. on wednesday, mom arrives home from work 4hrs before her actual time, packs a laundry basket full of my son's clothes, a grocery bag full of toys and tells me she is taking him somewhere safe. i'm shocked and asking where but she never tells me but says that i can call her if i need protection. on thursday, i still do not have a responce to the whereabouts of my son....MY SON!!!! my hubby is threatening to call the cops on a kidnapping charge.

what is this world coming to when a parent is UNABLE to punish a child???

hell, back in the day, i got my ass beat the fuck down with a belt, switch, orange extention cord, wooden paddle or whatever the hell my parents could get their hands on quick. and our parents got the same shit because they always told us how they got whooped.

but now, you even look at a child wrong, your ass is grass!! when one parent sets dicipline, the other should let it stand. not like: daddy-"you are not allowed to watch tv or play gameboy"....then here comes mommy-"it's ok baby, you can watch cartoons"......it's wrong.....don't contridict any punishment set by another parent.

so now i sit here.....lost, alone, hurt, in tears because a child was diciplined. how can i be a parent if i don't get the chance to. parenthood is all about learning. how can i learn if i am not able to be around my own child....my son.

GIVE ME BACK MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!