Faithful and True chekopeva Real and Tru...'s blog: "Cheryl's"

This is an accident voice message that was left on a Mothers Machine from her son in Iraq. For the haters if you love so much in DREAMING that they are there for vacation here is a NEWS FLASH. This is every minute of everyday of their lives and they do this just to give you the right to speak your mind and have the freedom to practice your religion and to walk down the street without this and sleep in the safety of your own bed in your warm house and drive the cars you drive and date who you want. I Pray for the safety and the Angels to watch over every Soldier there and to bring them home (which I do know some will do the ultimate sacrifice for us) I Honor you all and Salute everyone that has been in war zone and THANK YOU FOR YOUR DUTY ABOVE AND BEYOND. HUGS AND MUAHS AND LOVES TO ALL OF YOU

I have experienced all of this and trust me IT IS HELL AND NO ONE DESERVES THIS CRAP. Beating Choking Shoving Hair Pulling Denial of access to Money Threats of Suicide Threats of physical harm Slapping Punching Sexual Assault Name Calling Verbal Put-Downs Humiliation Isolation Stalking

THOSE BORN 1920-1979 READ TO THE BOTTOM FOR QUOTE OF THE MONTH BY JAY LENO. IF YOU DON'T READ ANYTHING ELSE---VERY WELL STATED TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED the 1930's, 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's!! First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes. Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-based paints. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking. As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats , booster seats, seat belts or air bags. Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat. We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle. We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this. We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank Kool-aid made with sugar, but we weren't overweight because, WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING! We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day.And we were O.K. We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem. We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CD's, no cell phones, no personal computer' s, no Internet or chat rooms....... WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them! We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever. We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not poke out very many eyes. We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them! Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!! The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law! These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever! The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL! If YOU are one of them CONGRATULATIONS! You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives for our own good . While you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave (and lucky) their parents were. Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?! The quote of the month is by Jay Leno: 'With hurricanes, tornados, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?' For those that prefer to think that God is not watching over us...go ahead and delete this. For the rest of us...pass this ON!

A woman, renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk 's office, was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation. She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself. 'What I mean is, ' explained the recorder, 'do you have a job or are you just a ...?' 'Of course I have a job,' snapped the woman. 'I'm a Mom.' 'We don't list 'Mom' as an occupation, 'housewife' covers it,' Said the recorder emphatically. I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall. The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like, 'Official Interrogator' or 'Town Registrar.' 'What is your occupation?' she probed. What made me say it? I do not know. The words simply popped out. 'I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relations.' The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and looked up as though she had not heard right. I repeated the title slowly emphasizing the most significant words. Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written, in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire. 'Might I ask,' said the clerk with new interest, 'just what you do in your field?' Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply, 'I have a continuing program of research, (what mother doesn't) In the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and out). I'm working for my Masters, (the whole family) and already have four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.' There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she completed the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door. As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby) in the child development program, testing out a new vocal pattern. I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! And I had gone on the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to mankind than 'just another Mom.' Motherhood! What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on the door. Does this make grandmothers 'Senior Research associates in the field of Child Development and Human Relations' And great grandmothers 'Executive Senior Research Associates?' I think so!!! I also think it makes Aunts ' Associate Research Assistants.' Please send this to another Mom, Grandmother, Aunt you know.

I have been a victim of some games and because of some the so called friends that has stalked me and added me just so they can see what I am doing with a certain friend. I am sick and tired of the game and will never in this world let you know about my relationships with my true friends and their personal life so is there is some out there that is wanting that info I will cuss you out and block and delete you. It is None of your business about anyones life and my relationship with them. My friends is that and I am loyal to them and will never break their trust in me, so take your game somewhere else.

I am fed up with the games with playing one friend against another with the lies and stalking on here I am about ready to cuss everyone out that is playing them. I have a very dear friend upset with me due to the lies and even got me involved with them which is something I hate doing. Girls that is trying to see crap mind your own business and keep your friends off of me and leave the games to somewhere else.

You had used your heart to teach my heart to not to be afraid to open up and let in Love, Unconditionally, and to trust and to heal and take your word and trust. This heart was scared and still trying to learn but in return it is told to be patient and patience it can do, Love it can do, Faith can do , Understand the fear it can do. But coming in all this time and just waiting to see if my heart is real. Here it is, my heart is real and loyal and Honest and Pure. Loves with the commitment and passion and Faith that can move the Mountains and will never hurt or use anyone on purpose. I Believe in the Bible verse 1st Corinthians 13 and love with that same believe and the passion that only comes from real love and not the empty satisfaction only that comes from Lust. The Love that was grown and learned and communicate in time, to me that is love only

For Every Female That visits me; I am so tired of being stalked by females thinking that because some guy buys you a virtual gift of leaves a comment that you think that they do love you and so you come to me and start checking me out all the time and/or tell me to either leave them alone or give me permission to be their friend. Here is a fact that you ARE living in a dream and you can not fall in love with someone within a few minutes or a few days and I will be friends with anyone I want and I am smart enough to recognize the games and do keep my Private Life as that PRIVATE, and my friends and relationships is my business and that is that. I do not fall for the lies or games so all I can say is grow up and stop looking for a Sugar Daddy and learn to be INDEPENDANT and the Stalking, it is old and I am tired of trying to keep my friends due to your games and one I will never lose because we do communicate and that is never going to change. And I also added this to my profile to make it very, very clear to everyone that does visit and to my regulars