Ok, I've been separated since the begining of January, with a divorce pending. I have proof my ex belonged to a dating site, for almost our last year together. And she still denies everything. I'm not whining about that, my heart is bolted shut in that department. What is killing me, is the fact she's using my 9 year old girl as a pawn. Visitation goes to court on Sept 21st, and now, any visits are on her whim. I am not, nor ever would be a dead beat Dad. The father of her first daughter moved 1500 miles away when he found out she was pregnant. I was there every step, including the delivery room, and NOBODY on this planet had making formula down to the art I did. I coach my girls slowpitch team just to have extra time, but the ex hardly brings her to any practices, or games. And she won't let me bring her. Now, she's kicked my daughter out of her room, and moved a former crack addict in. Is this typical of a woman's vengence? My little girl is my whole world, the ex knows how to hurt me, and is doing it. She's winning, because I broke 3 ribs of her lover, and got charged. The law here is on her side because of it. I'm 6'1", 235lbs, but almost cry myself to sleep if my calls don't get answered, or she's not allowed to call. I always wanted to be a 'hands on' dad. She's never bothered her first ex that ran off, why me?
