i need some help from anyone offering advice ...what do you do when ur scared...im in love with one of the greatest guys i have ever met...he is the father of my child and the love of my life but i just recently got married and it wasnt to him...im not sure if i made a mistake not giving him another chance but i was scared of our secaond relationship turnign out the same way that the first one did...i just did not think i could go through that again the heartache and pain and i think that i got married for that reason but i didnt know what to do i was scared...please help if u can send me a msg and let me know....