I am not sure how many times I have heard a man say, "Women are so confusing" or "I don't understand women!" I am pretty sure now, that the reason we get confusing is because we were confused ourselves by a man. Yes, I'm saying it - men are what make women hard to understand. I have figured out that the reason a woman does not admit what she wants is because she knows that if she says the wrong thing that the man will be gone before she can even finish her sentence.
I've learned recently that men must get a kick out of stringing a girl along, or using her. Seriously, I really believe they find it humorous. They don't call. Sex is the number one thing they are after. And most of all...god forbid they get into a real relationship. C'mon guys, is committment really that scary?
With men in the past I've given them pretty much all of the power. How our "relationship" ended up was always in their hands. Of course, this was bad because they always chose to NOT get into a relationship with me, and trust me, I've heard every reason in the book. Ninety-nine percent of it is not true -- he is NOT too busy to have a girlfriend, you are NOT in different places in life, therefore causing a relationship (that has not even been atempted) not to work out, there is NOT another girl in the picture -- he simply wants sex, or thinks that something better may come along. BUT it is possible that he will keep you somewhat close in case that something better never shows up. Yes, it's true -- I myself have heard everyone of these excuses and stories. I'm done with them. From now on, I want the power. I have learned that I need the courage to say these things to a man. "I'm awesome, so if you don't want me, it's your loss", "You have to prove yourself to me, first". It seems easy, and although it's something I have learned after many, many mistakes, it's so going to be rough. There's always that sweet guy who seems to think the world of you, but is putting on an Academy Award winning act.
