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Today is Tuesday, April 1, 2008. 11 more days to go until I can throw my ex-husband's last name in the trash! I am the luckiest woman in the world to have met a wonderful man as Brent! I never knew what true love was until he came into my life. He is definately my Prince Charming!! I would die for him and he knows it. He is My First Love And My Last Love!! I know I have been married before but I know I can honestly say there was no love there. Brent proves everyday that he loves me. That's why I can say he is My First Love And My Last Love. We have the love it takes to make it in this crazy ass world. I Love You Brent!

Hey Ya'll! Today is Monday, February 25, 2008. In 47 days (Saturday, April 12,2008) I will be marrying my soul mate! I have no doubt in my mind that our love is forever. We actually met online almost 3 years ago. We will be tying the knot 2 days after our 3 year anniversary of meeting online. We took our time getting to know each other and between many instant messages and phone calls we knew we were in love. We waited 8 months to meet face to face to make sure it was what we wanted. When we laid eyes on each other we knew we were meant to be. Brent is a hard worker that when he took me to love he took my boys to love as well just like I took his children to love. I couldn't ask for a better step-father for Lee and Billy! He makes it possible for me to stay home with the kids. Family time is VERY important to us and we love our kids! The kids love having someone that wants to play with them and that is a kid at heart. I sit back and look at the 3 of them and smile. Brent digs watching cartoons with the kids. That gives them something to bond over besides all the grrrrrrrrrrrrr stuff men do. Brent is a positive role model for the boys and will steer them in the right direction. Because of him I have NO doubt the boys will turn out to be outstanding men! Not to mention a wonderful husband to their wives and spiritual leaders for them as well.

75 days until we say I DOOOO!!! I love You Brent so much and thank god everyday for you!!!!!!

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YES!!! I drove to Montgomery yesterday to get my kids!!! I am so glad to have them home I can't stand it! They are my life my everything. They make me smile and I slept like a baby knowing they were home and safe in their own beds. I Love You Lee & Billy

I found out today that the ex's almost 92 year old grandfather fell and broke his hip. That actually worries me. The grandparents live alone in their home but close to the oldest child.(less than 1/2 mile. I really don't know if he will survive surgery. He has a bad heart and all. No matter what went wrong with my ex, I still care about his grand parents. I pray that the grand father will be ok.

As you can see there is a picture of a boy as my primary photo. That is my son Lee. Today my little giant turns 9 years old. It's hard to believe he is 9!! It seems like only yesterday I was in the OR delivering and telling my now ex husband HA! HA! your mom didn't get her wish! She had been pestering me that I should have the doctor to wait til the 13th for the baby to be born on a relative of her hubby's bday. I told her the baby will be born when the doctor says! Lee was born on September 12, 1998 at 11:14 PM ; 46 minutes shy of what she wanted LOL!! Man it did me some good to get a laugh!! NOONE is gonna dictate shit to me on this and that except the baby being born and the doctor. In a way today is also bittersweet. A childhood friend of mine would have celebrated his 40th birthday today. Unfortunately Danny drowned on June 1, 1997 3 months and 11 days shy of his 30th Birthday. I hope his soul found peace. He had a troubled life and was trying to straighten things out. But On a Happier Note...HAPPY 9th BIRTHDAY LEE!!! WE LOVE YOU!!!!!

Hubby calls today upset the asses under him are bitching saying he don't work. Hubby is an assistant manager for a scrap yard and works very hard. The ones harrassing him are nothing but undercover drug dealers and pissed they will never go anywhere in this company. Not only does the hubby work extremely hard for the money he also fills in security detail when someone needs to be out and still puts in a full day! What can the workers expect outta him til his hand heals? He is trying to work like he always does with his hand cut up and 14 stitches in it. He unloaded a truck today with one hand and these little fuckers want to tell him he don't work? He better hope I don't catch them alone. I'll fuck them up or tip off a cop friend of mine to their extra money making they have going on. You DON'T FUCK WITH MY MAN OR MY KIDS! I'LL FUCK YOU UP SOUTHERN STYLE!

Talk about a fucked up day! Here I was fresh from getting in from taking kids to school; rockin' out in Dirty Little Secrets Lounge and I get a call...It was the hubby calling in total hysterics! I couldn't really understand what he was saying. All I could make out was finger and fuck it HURTS! I got the jist of what hospital then as I was tearing outta my drive I got a call on the cell saying that he was going to a different one. With him calmer I was able to find out what has happend. He was unloading a truck of stainless steel and sliced a big hunk of his left index finger off and was bleeding alot! He's directing me to him when we realize I had caught them( I was 5 cars behind them) I thanked the guy for bringing him to the hospital. We walked right in and into a room! The nurse uncovered the finger and I almost hit the floor. Hubby had cut through both the epidermis and the dermis. Fortunately it wasn't to the bone and the skin and meat were still there. The doctor came in shot hubby 7 times with laticane in the finger. Cleaned it up then told hubby they needed to wash it with anti-bacterial soap since hubby's finger was filty from work. My poor hubby cried like a baby it hurt so bad. The doctor began stitching the finger and was talking to us saying to the hubby he was lucky to have a wife so dedicated to him. The doc proceeded to ask where we met and we both replied "The Internet". No joke that's where we met. Fell in love and now married. The doc thought that was awesome. He finished the finger and told hubby to go home and hubby said ok...Once outta earshot of the doc he tells me Im going back to work. That lead to an arguement.I stayed mad at him for a while that day. When he called saying he was hurting and was coming home early I had to say I TOLD YOU SO! YOU SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO THE DOCTOR! MEN! LOL The good thing is he kept his finger. But DAMN! No Good fingering sessions with that hand during sex for a while LOL!!

Thursday is the first day of school for the boys. To think I have a 2nd and 3rd grader living at home wooooooooooooohooooooo. Our other 2 kids are in the 8th and 9th. They live 3 hrs away. Funny how they cant find a phone to say hi cause we're not spending money like crazy anymore since we bought the house. Atleast the 2 youngest know life is not all about how much we can spend on them