ladies i feel that you are as confused as men are in knowing what tyou want from men as weare in what we want from you we think we want a reraltionship then when we ahve it we are looking at others why and i know woman do the same thing why do you think this is maybe it because you dont know what you want till its gone maybe your man doesnt pay as much attention as before why is that why cant it be the same as it was when you first met what do you think just curious on the female perspective and i am new on here so feel free to say whats up to massachusetts bye jimmy