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"I Keep On Lovin' You"
Reba McEntire
(feat. Keith Urban & Taylor Swift)
I am not sure if anyone else has ever seriously looked into their vows when they got married. I know before I got married I thought about those vows very long and very hard. And the day I stood before my husband to be, and said them, I felt every one of those words and took them to heart.
Will you have this woman/man as your lawful wedded partner,to live together in the estate of matrimony?
Will you love him/her, honor him/her, comfort him/her, and keep him/her in sickness and in health;
forsaking all others, be true to him/her as long as you both shall live?
Lets break that down......
Will you have this woman/man as your lawful wedded partner,to live together in the estate of matrimony? Meaning that you live as one...2 homes becoming one. All of your issues and their issues are now YALLS issues. You both live as one.
Will you love him/her,--marriage is not to be enter into if you do not love each other. Marriage is a scared thing that you both agree to love each other for the rest of your lives.
honor him/her,-have respect for their feelings and options. Even if you dont agree with them, they are valued options and feelings. and they have been expressed in a way that should be honored.
comfort him/her,-no matter what happens in life be there for one another.
and keep him/her in sickness and in health;- this means that no matter what, you will be there for them and comfort them whether they are healthy or sick.
forsaking all others,- meaning that you will not take another person into your heart and bed. meaning that your spouse is the only one who you will have those feelings for. No phone sex, NSFW pic exchange, no internet sex and no physical sexual contact with any other person that is not your spouse.
be true to him/her as long as you both shall live? No matter what life throws at you.....You stick by each other.. as the saying goes...What doesnt kill you will only make you stronger...
I know that this is fu and that its a game to most but there are those out there that they dont care if its a game. There are those out there that dont care if they are married. There are the single ones out there that dont care if a person is married. But when the spouse of one tells you to leave them alone and to back off, then they need to be respected as such. I know my husband and I fight. and most of the time its due to this place. But I guess i am old fashion but I took my vows seriously and everything. I dont flirt. If a guy hits on me, either 1) i handle it if its in my sb. I remind them to read my profile or 2) if it happens in a lounge....I have a great family that watches my back. To all those who would rather cheat on their spouse on here and dont consider it cheating........YALL ARE IN DENIAL!!!! Work things out with your spouse...if you are fighting, take a walk. cool off. come back and talk. if you can not talk about it....go to someone who can help....a family member, a friend, church official or when professional cousneling. Divorce has become to easy of an answer for everyone now days. Its time to go back to classics....DIVORCE SHOULD BE THE VERY LAST RESORT FOLKS!!!!!
If you are reading this and think that i am being a bitch then you are right. You put yourself in my shoes and walk a mile or so. Then you will understand i will fight for what is mine and i will do my damnest to keep it. I love my husband and nothing he does will change that. We may fight but its because I love him enough to voice my feelings and opinons. I will not someone come between us.
Sincerely,
H3LLKAT RLW2 TRA1L3R PARK TATT3D BADASS
"The American flag does not fly because the wind moves past it.
It flies from the last breath of each military member who has died protecting it.
American Soldiers don't fight because they hate what's in front of them, they fight because they love what's behind them."
Before you wanna be an asshole with your girl, Think about this...
While your ignoring her, another guy is giving her attention.
While your giving her problems, another guy is listening.
While your to busy for her, another guy is making time for her.
While your making her cry, another guy is trying to make her smile again.
When your not sure if you want her, Another guy already has that figured out.
SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT MEN
"Power Of A Woman"
Lee Brice
"The Fool"
Lee Ann Womack
"I may have never won a beauty pageant nor have i have the looks for such. I have been a fighter and tough as nails. But underneath it all is a heart of a woman that is very fragile if improperly handled."
This was something that I posted just recently because it seems like on here, its the looks that everyone is after and not the heart of a person. If would want to be with someone be with the for all the right reasons. Not for the way they look. Because the way they look on the outside may not be what they look or act like on the inside.
There are those out there who are just looking for the right one that can call their own and when they think they do, that is when they get trampled on. With no remorse another can break that persons heart and not give a care. Or it can be as simple as an action that one makes someone else feel like they have been used and feel unwanted.
So the next time you do something or say something to or about someone, make sure that it is what you really want to say or do because you may never know what the out come may be.
If you are 30, or older, you might think this is hilarious!
When I was a kid, adults used to bore me to tears with their tedious diatribes about how hard things were. When they were growing up; what with walking twenty-five miles to school every morning.... Uphill.... Barefoot... BOTH ways...yadda, yadda, yadda
And I remember promising myself that when I grew up, there was no way in hell I was going to lay a bunch of crap like that on my kids about how hard I had it and how easy they've got it!
But now that I'm over the ripe old age of thirty, I can't help but look around and notice the youth of today. You've got it so easy! I mean, compared to my childhood, you live in a damn Utopia! And I hate to say it, but you kids today, you don't know how good you've got it!
1) I mean, when I was a kid we didn't have the Internet. If we wanted to know something, we had to go to the damn library and look it up ourselves, in the card catalog!!
2) There was no email!! We had to actually write somebody a letter - with a pen! Then you had to walk all the way across the street and put it in the mailbox, and it would take like a week to get there! Stamps were 10 cents!
3) Child Protective Services didn't care if our parents beat us. As a matter of fact, the parents of all my friends also had permission to kick our ass! Nowhere was safe!
4) There were no MP3's or Napsters or iTunes! If you wanted to steal music, you had to hitchhike to the record store and shoplift it yourself!
5) Or you had to wait around all day to tape it off the radio, and the DJ would usually talk over the beginning and @#*% it all up! There were no CD players! We had tape decks in our car. We'd play our favorite tape and "eject" it when finished, and then the tape would come undone rendering it useless. Cause, hey, that's how we rolled, Baby! Dig?
6) We didn't have fancy crap like Call Waiting! If you were on the phone and somebody else called, they got a busy signal, that's it!
7) There weren't any freakin' cell phones either. If you left the house, you just didn't make a damn call or receive one. You actually had to be out of touch with your "friends". OH MY GOSH !!! Think of the horror... not being in touch with someone 24/7!!! And then there's TEXTING. Yeah, right. Please! You kids have no idea how annoying you are.
8) And we didn't have fancy Caller ID either! When the phone rang, you had no idea who it was! It could be your school, your parents, your boss, your bookie, your drug dealer, the collection agent.... you just didn't know!!! You had to pick it up and take your chances, mister!
9) We didn't have any fancy PlayStation or Xbox video games with high-resolution 3-D graphics! We had the Atari 2600! With games like 'Space Invaders' and 'Asteroids'... Your screen guy was a little square! You actually had to use your imagination!!! And there were no multiple levels or screens, it was just one screen.. Forever! And you could never win. The game just kept getting harder and harder and faster and faster until you died! Just like LIFE!
10) You had to use a little book called a TV Guide to find out what was on! You were screwed when it came to channel surfing! You had to get off your ass and walk over to the TV to change the channel!!! NO REMOTES!!! Oh, no, what's the world coming to?!?!
11) There was no Cartoon Network either! You could only get cartoons on Saturday Morning. Do you hear what I'm saying? We had to wait ALL WEEK for cartoons, you spoiled little rat-bastards!
12) And we didn't have microwaves. If we wanted to heat something up, we had to use the stove! Imagine that!
13) And our parents told us to stay outside and play... all day long. Oh, no, no electronics to soothe and comfort. And if you came back inside... you were doing chores!
And car seats - oh, please! Mom threw you in the back seat and you hung on. If you were lucky, you got the "safety arm" across the chest at the last moment if she had to stop suddenly, and if your head hit the dashboard, well that was your fault for calling "shot gun" in the first place!
See! That's exactly what I'm talking about! You kids today have got it too easy. You're spoiled rotten! You guys wouldn't have lasted five minutes back in 1970's and 80's or any time before!
Regards, Everyone over 30
