I treat everyone with respect and rarely say anything to anyone... I'm a loner. But I've been watching some of the fighting and crying on here and find it amusing. If you take pictures of yourself in revealing clothes and suggestive positions solely to get more rates, etc. You're a piece of meat! Or at least that's what you're representing yourself as. So don't be surprised when the dogs come looking for supper. You can gripe all you want, about the people that send inappropriate messages, but if you are begging for love, you have to take all that comes your way. Grow some thicker skin and learn to deal ppl... it's a game. Keep your personal info. to yourself, and you can walk away at any time.
P.S. If you live in a small town, (easy to pinpoint people) Don't put your real name where the crazies can literally go to google and see what your front door looks like. Especially when you have a kid. I've been a chat mod. for years and I've learned one thing... creepy old men take good notes.