so i dated this guy who was like obssesed with me and i broke it off because i sereiously had no room to breath and he is in the army but anyways he calls me constantly and says that he can't live without me and that he needs me back in his life. I love him but i hate possesive guys and i want to be with him but i just can't how do i tell him that i still care about him even though we broke up and that i don't like possesive guys.