1) Hold her hand (at the mall, grocery store, during the 10 minute wait till you get a seat at Cheesecake Factory)
2) Be affectionate (be young not immature...pick her up in your arms, kiss her from behind)
3) When you travel somewhere without her, always bring her back a present
4) Remind her why you love her ("I love you" sounds good, reminding her the reason why is infinitely better)
5) Support her dreams unconditionally and be her biggest fan
6) Whether you are married or just dating, always have a date night at least once a week (no excuses!!!)
7) Put her honour before yours (pride is much easier to regain than her confidence)
8) Always be honest and convey how you feel (be a man and take the consequences if you are wrong or err, but never lie...that's for cowards)
9) Ask her about her day (it takes 2 minutes and the rewards are forever)
10) Notice the hints 3 months out from her birthday and Christmas (she really does make it easy for you).
11) If you are playing a video game, watching sports or your favorite show, mute the TV and turn and face her when she enters the room and starts talking
12) When in the bedroom, have her keep her hands above her head while lying down with the rule that when she moves them, you will stop what you are doing and just focus completely on her on her pleasure
13) For all the things she does for you, NEVER TAKE HER FOR GRANTED!!!
14) Leave her love letters from time to time (couple of pages or a post-it that say, "You are so Beautiful!!" on her car, door, etc.)
15) Similar to #3, buy her a present from time to time just for the hell of it. A shirt, a bottle of perfume, a framed picture of the two of you is so inexpensive and will pay greater dividends than anything you have ever spent money on.
16) Respect her like you would your mother, sister, or grandmother.
17) Every once in awhile, tell her how breath-taking she looked in that outfit a couple of days before (the fact you noticed and remembering it days later carries great weight)
18) Go out to lunch and shopping with her. While shopping is never fun for a guy, watching her try on a sexy outfit or her asking you your opinion about an item in Victoria's Secret makes those hours well spent! ;)
19) Winning her affection is easy, capturing her heart takes some work, walking away with her soul is truly a great feat. Challenge to obtain those difficult tasks, don't look for the easiest route.
20) Get along with her family and her girlfriends. If one of her close girlfriends is single, suggest you invite her along on one of those date nights every once in awhile. While the other 19 things will win her over, having her best friends support you and respect you give you a window to her ear you will never have.
