So, I’m generally a pretty level headed person. I know what I like, want, have, and can lose. But lately I’ve been having issues trying to understand why I’m even married. Be sides the fact that we have kids together, and such a long history we have nothing in the world in common. I drink, smoke, go out. He sits at home and plays Xbox. So the dilemma is what do we do, what do I do next? I can’t change who I am.