I have 2 children.. One is 3 and one is 1.. I love them both dearly.. As for the father he has not seen my 3 year old which is adopted out now since she was about 6 months old.. The same guy is the father of my 1 year old which is with my dad.. He has not seen her since she was 2 months old.. Now he is coming around and wanting to see them and I don't think that he deserves the chance to know them.. So am I wrong for that or should he have the chance