Angel's blog: "blog stuff"

I am not taking credit for this i found this on a different website writen by a very intelligent woman.. just found it worthy of sharing and very insightful) enjoy

 

1. Please touch us

Cuddle us, spoon us, grab the small of our backs. Kiss our foreheads and make us feel small. We crave your hands all over us. We love them no matter where they happen to land--be that on our asses or up our skirts.
Just. Touch. Us. It reminds us that we're yours.

2. Take pride in us

Relish in the fact that we're yours--that we belong to you and no one else. Smile when we enter the room because you know we're walking toward you. It lets us know you care. It makes us want to be better for you.

3. Let us cry

When we are sad or angry, or pissed the hell off. When we drink too much...especially when we drink too much, let us cry our eyes out. Let us be messes, with mascara running down our cheeks and pints of ice cream in our hands. Let us be okay with not being okay once in a while. This one requires no action from you, just that you be okay with it when it happens.

4. Forgive

Despite how hard we try, we will make mistakes. We will fuck things up, say things wrong, do things crazy, and when that happens we need you to forgive us. We're not talking immediate forgiveness, or that a price won't often be paid for it, but forgiveness that comes eventually. We need to know that the slate has been wiped clean, all trespasses have been forgiven...and when it happens, don't forget to let us know. See number 5.

5. Communicate...often!

We need this...we're women. If we don't discuss something, it will fester in our brains forever, eventually driving us crazy. A three minute conversation could ease hours of worry for us once an uneasy feeling sets in. If that can be prevented with a few sentences, please take the time to speak them. Honestly, like two seconds of your time could stop our heads from exploding....and you don't want to clean up that mess, do you?

6. We want you to make us feel pretty

Not that you don't make us feel super sexy pretty darn often, but once in a while, it's good to actually hear. Tell us our ass looks great in our yoga pants, that our hair looks especially shiny today. Tell us you like our new boots. Notice something small and compliment us about it, and our hearts will swell for days. Compliments let us know what it's like to see through your eyes. Those are glimpses of the world we don't get to see.

7. It's the little things

Some of these are sounding cliche, but are just so fucking true. Sure, your big gestures of grandeur are admired, but it is often the small things that get our cheeks turning red. Leave a note on the mirror in the morning telling us to have a great day. Sit next to us during a movie you have no desire to see. Take the dog out in the morning so we can sleep in for an extra 10 minutes, remember what ice cream we prefer to eat when we cry. If you do these things, we're yours for life.

8. Remember things

Speaking of little things, try to remember them. Things like how we take our coffee and the name of that bitchy girl who sits next to us at work. Remember anything. Three weeks from now, bust out some silly story we told you over dinner one evening in great detail. Remember something we'd never expect you to store into your internal drive. Remember our first concert together, and our best friend from kindergarten's name. The more obscure the better.

9. Deal with us

When we're singing in the car. When we drink too much wine. When we completely melt down. Deal with our pasts, and when we don't feel pretty. Deal with our stretch marks and insecurities, our early bedtimes and exhaustion. Deal with our mood, and how we load the dishwasher the wrong way. These things silently tell us that you'll be by our sides regardless of how nerdy, silly or utterly hopeless we can get.

Finally, the most important thing we need from you that we'll never say out loud:

10. Be the most stable thing in our lives

Be stronger than us. Be the one person in our world that won't turn on us or walk away. When life becomes scary and confusing, and we just need something solid to hold onto, please be our anchor. It's because of you that our awful days are easier to get through. Don't be perfect. Just be there. It's the only real requirement on this list.

Okay i was rating pix and i have noticed this shit alot lately and have ranted about it before but now i need to rant this in print.

1. girls and guys who have playboy bunny background! i am not pretty enough nor naked enough to have playboy bunnies scrolling in my background. i think it takes some balls for an ugly old woman to think she is that amazing to refer to herself as a bunny and have the bunny heads floating around her background. REALITY CHECK! HUGH HEFNER WONT SLEEP WITH YOU, YOU ARE HIS AGE! 

2. MORPHS!! now the playboy bunnies arent as bad as this, you are ugly! you have a pic of yourself morphing between yourself and christina agulira wtf! are you kidding me or yourself? haha you dont look like her or anyone else you morph into! if you are going to morph into someone be realistic. dont even try to look that good you will hurt yourself and it will cost way too much money. so instead of wasting the time to make that pic to make someone think you resemble a celebrity GO TO THE GYM! as for you fucks who make these pix for them you are just helping them embarass themselves so next time, stop and think okay does this girl resemble chewbacca more than the celeb i am going to use if so stop what you are doing!

 

okay this is it for my rants today if i pissed you off them you probably have playboy bunnies on your profile or a stupid morph that doesnt resemble you what so ever. FUK YOU! lol

i was in a thinking mood today, well lately i have been in a thinking mood, and for those of you who do not know everything has just been crashing down, in my little world. i thought i was strong and hell maybe i still am. whenever i try to be selfless i come off as being selfish. whenever i try to cry i feel like i am showing weakness. whenever i let go and scream like i want to i hurt peoples feelings. i am tired of being the strong one and i am tired of being the one who always knows what to say and really in the end i dont know who else to blame but myself. so is it really my fault for wanting to be alone? i feel like i am doing the right thing for myself but then again how do you know what the right thing is when everyone else thinks the "right thing" is wrong. letting go is so hard, and when you can't let go to the past how can you move forward? when the past and the present has you so screwed up that you can't even think how can you really have a future? all the arguements and all the tears will never change anything if nothing is said, and you can say alot even without words. actions and body language say alot more than you could imagine. when all you feel is nothingness and you know that you have nothing to give but honesty how does that make you a bad person? when sorry just isnt enough, what else can you say but,... goodbye? what it all boils down to is one simple fact sadly but true: IN THE END ALL YOU HAVE IS YOURSELF, ONLY YOURSELF TO BLAME AND ONLY YOURSELF TO DEPEND ON!

I woke up and realized you were gone, No where could i find you, No where, You were just lost. Gone from me, You found some new places to be. All I can think, Youre dead to me. I cant think you left me, I cant think you would do that to me. Youre dead I had your funeral and everything. Maybe I did, alter reality, just a bit. It didnt hurt as bad, who gives a shit? Celebrate your life, kill me too if need be, You will always be,... dead to me.