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I'm looking for your sincere advise.
A year ago I met here in CL a beautiful and sensitive black woman from your area. What started as an inocous beginning of friendship and continued as a very hot and passionate love.
We spoke on the phone for hours. We made love on the phone. We faught both with text messages and talking on the phone. We declared our deepest and sincerest love on the phone and e_mails...
All this for one year.
After a while since the beginning, she told me she had met a guy who was after her. And who was pampering her with invitations.
She told me that she couldn't be alone by herself (divorced with two children) there but that, even if she went out with this guy, I was her only and real love.
He clearly noticed her weak spot and kept pampering her with trips and gifts even if he knew (or so he told her) she really was in love with me...or so she said.
Should I believe her ?
Now she has been silent since New Years Eve when we spoke for the last time in loving terms before she went to her sister's party...and I haven't heard from her since.
Last time she was silent for a few days she told me later she had gone for a trip with this guy-lover...but that she only loved me.
Should I continue believing her and her expressions of love...or stop this illusion and this dream ?
Thank you in advance for your comments. You can tell me I'm a chum or stupid or idealistic or....whatever. But I would appreciate your comments.
Thank you,
A.
Just a quick question I soo want to ask him (even though I'm not a black sister): how does one 'make love' on the phone?
