sbharleyrider
@ CherryTAP commented in my blog,
Men Preference of Thicker Women or Skinnie Minnies that women want younger men.
I am not so sure about that....
after all,
my first husband was 7 years older than myself ....
my second husband was 4 years younger than myself...
my third husband (God rest his soul) was 4 years older than myself...
and,
when I was 46, I dated a guy for a year that was 16 years younger than myself (until he decided that he couldn't handle dating someone that was only 5 years younger than his parents).
Now,
pulling on my heart strings is a guy that is just about the same as age as myself.
I am not sure that I would agree that women want younger men -- especially, any more than men want younger women. While some women and men might share that concept, it would be unjust to say that all women and men do. It may be, in fact, that only a small percentage of women and men might desire the youthful nature of a younger partner, especially on just more than a fling basis. When the truth of the matter comes down to it, I would think that we might all share
Chris K
@ CherryTAP's statement that he would just like someone to be breathing. Ideally, I would think, this breathing is in the shape of mind, body, and soul. The spirit of the person being equally important, or perhaps more so, than the body itself.
More important to me than age is their --
ability to care for himself as well as others,
ability to have a sense of humor, even in the most dire of times,
ability to be a teamplayer, as well as the ability to take the lead in some situations,
ability to make decisions, as well as discuss,
ability to agree to disagree at times and not go to bed angry,
and so much more.
What do you think????
