why do people think they need to say what they think others want to hear? hmmmmm......i think we should just say what we feel cuz thats the truth! there aint no in between or maybes! just say what you feel or you think at that time cuz you can always apologize later if you feel you were wrong. but if you speak what you truely feel it is right it is never wrong! cuz you speaking from your heart! n that should never have to be apologized for!