I was sitting here thinking about this. I wonder how O/other people keep their BDSM lifestyle seperate from their lives with their family, friends and workplace? I know for me it is often a struggle as a work in an ultra-conservative office and have the happy Christian family. It would be nice to be able to be who W/we are and not have to hide. But society can hardly handle homosexuals and gawd knows that they can't handle U/us... too bad. I'd love to hear your opinions!!!