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www.submissiveloving.com Basic Terms http://houseofthenobleheart.com/faqs_about_bdsm.htm ********************** Other ways to just be you www.humbledfemales.com www.takeninhand.com ********************** 24/7 discussion: http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/TPE/24_7_reality.htm Ageplay http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/missyageplay.htm ANTI-GOR: http://www.disinfo.com/archive/pages/dossier/id432/pg1/ Nice Guy Dom: http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdniceguy.html Contract sample: http://www.dungeonmagic.com/pages/contract4.html Daddy Dom some references: http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html http://www.domsubfriends.com/voye/articles/110/ http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Daddy_Dom Reading libraries: http://erotic-bdsm.net/ click on reading room top right http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/index.html Some possilbe truths of BDSM: http://www.bdsmrealm.net/modules.php?name=Magazine&file=article&sid=41 http://www.sensuoussadie.com/articles/virgoasthetics.htm http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html wikipedia Defines or attempts to define: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domination_and_submission_(BDSM) Test them http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/docs/acidtest.htm http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/docs/responsibilities_of_a_dominant.htm Myths Explored http://www.fetishexchange.org/stigma.shtml Variety of topics: www.castlerealm.com http://www.lovingdd.blogspot.com/ www.gloria-brame.com www.bdsmforall.com www.bdsmlist.com www.cuffs.com http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/index.html http://www.evilmonk.org/A/menu.cfm http://latches.beautyscastle.com/ http://www.xupstart.com/megapig/index.html http://www.thebrc.net/articles/indexes/basics.shtml http://www.subspace.cc/Home.html http://www.subnation.org/ http://www.geocities.com/midnite_angel1/index.html http://www.tiedmoments.com/submission/submission.htm http://www.boundandproud.com/beginners.htm http://www.steel-door.com/ http://willow.bdsmweb.net/theloveofone_mainmenu.html http://www.io.com/~ambrosio/gen/slvneed.html www.domsub.info http://www.wizdomme.com/ http://www.enslavement.org.uk/essays.html http://www.geocities.com/master_decadent2002/newbie.html http://www.ds-arts.com/RopeArt/mainrope.html http://www.nawashi.com/main.html www.ottawabdsm.com www.sirkelly.com www.slavefarm.com http://www.dungeonmagic.com/pages/contract4.html http://www.frugaldomme.com/esoteric/techni12.htm http://www.nawashi.com/main.html http://www.bcwsd.com/backroom/library/articles_us/slavepos.shtml http://www.geocities.com/meash47/sneakyandnice.html http://www.dmsrealm.com/topics/protect.html http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/docs/acidtest.htm Hear my cry, In my hungering search for you, Taste my breath on the wind, See the sky as it mirrors my colours,hints and whispers begin. I am living to nourish you, cherish you, I am pulsing the blood in your veins, Feel the magic and power of surrender to life. A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you. A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect. A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears. A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper, A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone. A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words. A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight. A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way. A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share. A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give. A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from. A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms. A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path. A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you. A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you. A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning. A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing. A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called your Master. A Person who displays sensitivity will be a Man who is sensitive to you. A Person who displays humility will be a Man who will show you respect. A Person who is not afraid to cry will be a Man who understands your tears. A Person who is quiet will be a Man who will hear your quietest whisper, A Person who knows fear will be a Man who will not leave you to face yours alone. A Person who will listen to a child will be a Man who will always work to understand your words. A Person who can stand alone will be a Man who will not crush you under His weight. A Person who controls Himself with ease will be a Man with the ability to control you in the same way. A Person who does not have to prove His point will be a Man with many worthwhile points to share. A Person who never makes demands will be a Man who treasures anything you give. A Person who doesn't run after you will be a Man you will never need to run away from. A Person who is calm will be a Man who can weather your storms. A Person who has walked the path to peace will be a Man able to guide you along that path. A Person who does not shout will be a Man who will never deafen you. A Person who knows Himself will be a Man who will have time to know you. A Person with an open mind will be a Man who never stops learning. A Person who never stops learning will be a Man who never stops growing. A Person who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called your Man. 1. The healthy submissive is capable of, and thrives on, intense, intimate, emotionally open relationships. This is often evident in the number of nourishing, sustaining, and life affirming friendships she makes over the years. 2. The healthy submissive is a giver. She often needs help to ration herself because her impulses nearly always lead her to want to do good for others. 3. The healthy submissive is capable of intense joy, especially in the context of a sustaining relationship. 4. The healthy submissive finds significant relaxation when properly related. She is at ease in that place. 5. The healthy submissive has finely tuned interpersonal sensitivity. She is reactive to subtle shifts in the emotional tone of others. 6. The healthy submissive has a fluidity of self, a flexibility that enables her to adapt to changing circumstances. 7. The healthy submissive is playful. 8. The healthy submissive has no more than the usual cultural conflicts about her body, and its goodness and beauty. 9. The healthy submissive takes pride in her accomplishments. 10. The healthy submissive accepts herself as she is, knowing that while her culture values independence and self sufficiency, she has strong dependency needs and that there is no inherent wrongness about those needs. 11. The healthy submissive seeks nourishing relationships. 12. The healthy submissive, in accepting herself as is is tolerant of others. But neither will she allow anyone to tell her what her truth should be. 13. The healthy submissive has a reasonable self concept, aware of her difficulties as well as her strengths. 14. The healthy submissive hunger is to be the object of an intense and penetrating understanding. When her nature is understood and she is held in a loving and firm frame, her devotion is almost limitless. The healthy submissive has an enormous capacity for devotion, from which springs her service. There is a voice that cries deep within my soul. It is the voice of a slave.

Bondage, or the act of restraining another, can be a heady, erotic form of play. For those practitioners, the tying or being tied by another can have a profound affect on their level of sexual energy. For the dominant to have the consensual trust of a submissive who allows him to render her completely helpless by bondage… it is a very powerful feeling. There aren’t many leaps of faith that are bigger. Bondage is among the most intense of games people play with each other. There are as many reasons for doing it as there are people who indulge. Bondage safety is the responsibility of all parties involved. It should not and does not fall exclusively on the shoulders of one partner. No matter where your interest is in the power dynamic when playing bondage games you should never under estimate your personal responsibility for making the bondage as safe as it is stimulating. For the bondage bottom, submissive, or slave that is involved in the bondage game (you know… the one that gets tied) it is important to realize they too have a personal responsibility in their own safety before, during and after the bondage event. The submissive needs to take her responsibility for helping her partner keep her safe just as seriously as he does. First of all being willing to engage in open and honest communication with your Dominant about your desires, needs, and fears is perhaps one of the most important of your responsibilities to making a scene work. You need to be willing to share information that will allow him to negotiate the mental and emotional terrain he will tread during your scenes safely and without setting off hidden triggers that will blow the mood, scene and potentially the relationship out of the water. You also have the responsibility of keeping him aware of how you are doing during a scene. There are things you may feel or experience that he will only be aware of if and when you speak up and tell him. You need to be willing to accept your share of the responsibility for communication. It is a very romantic notion to think of your dominant as one who can always know what you are thinking or feeling at the right time and always take the right actions as a result… but most dominants are not mind readers. Personally, I am not willing to risk the trust I have in him by waiting for him to simply know what I need. I would rather tell him. By communicating with him in this fashion honestly I am safe guarding both of us and our relationship. As the submissive partner you also need to understand that your Dominant person is only human. There will most likely come a time if you play together for very long when something unintended will happen. You need to be willing to make allowances for human beings being human and mistakes being made. What is important is that he knows how to correct them quickly to minimize damage and that you both learn from them. The dominant partner in exchange for a willing submissive partner who honestly communicates with him needs to be adept at the technical matters of bondage as well as his ability to monitor as closely as possible the well being of the helplessly bound partner. Many people rely on safe words as a way of safe guarding the well being of the submissive during scenes but at times the submissive partner is rendered cognitively unavailable. The notion of sub space if the play is intense enough is very real. It is a state of mind when she experiences things from a place somewhat removed from the reality of where she truly is. Things don’t process in her mind the same and sensations become changed and different… it can feel as if you’re trying to find your way in a fog. I have been there… and it is an exhilarating experience when you can just not worry about it… let go and fly. It is the best kind of high I have ever experienced. But in getting there I was able to trust my partner and his ability and need to be in control of as much of the sensation as he could. He is a control freak and part of that need to control comes with a need to closely monitor so that he can see as much as possible what is happening with me and my body. He watches me like a hawk and together we fly. Bondage can be very physically demanding. It is important to stretch and be as limber as possible before the bondage takes place. Contorted and unnatural positions can put incredible strain on the body and without being properly limber injury can occur. Stretching can allow your body to move in different ways more easily without a huge amount of pain and discomfort and can promote the ability to stay in strenuous bondage positions longer. When starting out with a scene, make sure the environment you are in is a safe one. Remote places can be unsafe as help cannot be summoned quickly should a problem arise. Be doubly safe when playing with your favorite sub in that cabin in the woods. Know the exact location of where you are and how you will direct people to find you if you find yourself in need of emergency medical help. For the rope Master… a good pair of EMT shears is a cheap investment in your sub’s life. Make sure you keep at least one proprietary pair in a designated location, so that it can be retrieved quickly to free a sub that is experiencing a significant problem. Also, be aware when removing tight material, that you don’t cut the skin. Cutting a tape hood, for example, needs to be done very carefully, as the nose, ears, lips, and hair can be inadvertently cut. Try to stay away from around the eyes. Keep other unlocking items handy as well. A set of “backup” keys is a good idea if you accidentally misplace the set you had to unlock the irons your sub wears. Research the kind of rope you want to use and know the advantages and disadvantages of your different options. Along with the rope information you need to be familiar with various knots and their uses. When starting out, learn which knots are good and which ones aren’t. Some will slip and tighten/come loose and others will hold well. Some are easy to undo, while some are a bitch to untie. Remember to consider the positional effects of tight bondage on the body. When a person is tied in tight bondage in a certain position for an extended period of time circulation to the brain can be compromised. Your tied toy becomes much more vulnerable to the effects of sudden extreme sensation and surprise due to the head rush it can cause. When the submissive is tied standing up and the head rush causes a faint you need to be prepared to get her released as quickly as possible to prevent injury from sudden and unexpected tension on places unintended. Many submissives have intense fantasies that include neck bondage. Tying anything around the neck is risky due to the shallow location of the carotid arteries in the neck. It takes very little pressure on these structures to compromise circulation to the brain… and being the oxygen greedy organ that it is the brain reacts rather quickly to the lack of oxygen it experiences and your partner may faint. The safest rule is to never tie anything around the neck. If you do… never do so in a position (such as a standing or kneeling one), that a sudden change of position can cause difficulty with quick release. I can tell you from experience that it can happen easier than you think and the level of consciousness so quickly compromised that it is impossible to even warn of feeling dizzy before you are out. Quick release is essential to safeguard life and limb. When using rope for bondage remember that the more coils of rope reduces the circulation and nerve damage problem because the exerted pressure is diffused across a wider area of the body. The potential of compromised circulation by the rope is almost guaranteed if the bondage goes on long enough so continuous monitoring is absolutely necessary. One way to monitor your captives circulation if she is incapacitated and unable to verbally speak to you is to gently pinch the fingernails or toenails (assuming of course she isn’t wearing nail polish) until they blanch white and then releasing and noting the amount of time it takes for them to return to the natural pink color. Two seconds or less means good circulation. Hands and feet that develop a bluish hue to them must be released immediately so that circulation can continue. A gentle touch can give you information about the circulation of a limb... one of the firsts signs of compromised circulation is skin that becomes unusually cool to the touch. If your submissive complains of numbness and tingling this is another indication that circulation is compromised and the bondage will need to be adjusted. A good rule of thumb is the “one finger” rule. Only tight enough to slip one finger under. Never leave a person in bondage alone and unsupervised. Problems can develop quickly. When wrapping the breasts, 20 minutes is the maximum time to leave them tied. If you plan on leaving your sub tied for an extended period of time, leave a little play 1-2 inches in the rope for a little added movement to help prevent cramping. Be very aware of how the placement of your rope or the position of the submissives body can affect the ability to breath. Rope that is tight around the chest can prevent adequate chest expansion therefore preventing adequate ventilation. Contorted positions can also impede the ability for her to breathe well and cause problems with the longevity of the position. Tying a body face down on a very soft surface can be dangerous. Always be aware of what is around her face or head when she is strictly tied so that you can prevent her from feeling smothered or panicking because she can’t get a good deep breath. Gags are an excellent way to control her mouth, but compromise the airway. Make sure you know how to get them off quickly, should she choke on saliva (if tied face up) or vomits. Also when gagging a partner provide her some other means of communicating with you if she is having a problem. It should be mentioned here that alcohol or time since last meal, can contribute to nausea and vomiting. On more than one occasion heavy pain has caused me to feel extremely nauseous and fear vomiting, and having that concern kept me from completely enjoying the bondage experience of the time. When tying with rope remember that rope burns are usually not the kind of discomfort either of you seek for the experience. So be careful about the speed of which you drag the rope across her skin when tying. Also, remember that the diameter of the rope can make a huge difference in the safety of the rope. Rope that is less than ¼ inch in diameter is going to be too small to be safe. Rope bondage is wonderful foreplay. Good rope bondage is not something that happens quickly. The rope artist first spends many hours thinking of and planning his different rope ties. Then he searches out the perfect rope for making his plans come to life. When the time comes that he can finally apply the rope to his body of desire it still does not come quickly or easily. Good rope wo

( Just my thought's on mind controll part ) In the BDSM world alot of Dom's use mind controll to keep the submissive in controll ...Why you may ask ....To bend the mind into giving up free will ( or so I have been told ) But as a person and humanbeing in my thought's total mind controll is the worst way to treat a submissive.As I have said befor ......Submmising is a gift not something that should be takin lightly and to give such a thing is one of the hardest and most giving way a sub can say I love you Striping away ones self and molding the sub's mind to acept and do the thing's the Dom wants.But is this love ? Is it truly submissing ?I say no...In my thought's it is a way of robing one of their true self and a way of being selfish. We are who and what we are to make us a indivusal. In time the sub will go threw a burn out stag ( i have been there so I know this one frist hand ) It's where the mind can acept nothing but try's to acept eveything ( not a pretty sight ) It become's total caos and doesn't know what to do any more ...acept what is happening or not to.It creates total confusion.What then I ask ? To me and in my mind this is just another way to abouse a PERSON let alone sub. And I know what alot of you are thinking right about now..WHAT THE HELL DOES SHE KNOW...I know alot from being a 24/7 slave and have been for the past 8 years ..I have gone threw the mind controll and the phical abouse of it and it's not just in BDSM but in all aspect's of life And as I said this is just my thought's and my feeling's on this subjuct. If you wish I'd love to hear your's as well.And i hope to post alot more on these topic's in the day's and week's to come.

Over the years I have heard numerous times about Goreans stating that the Master/slave relationship is "deeper" than the BDSM or D/s relationship. I would like to address this issue, not defending either side but to shed some light. All relationships start with nothing. Both parties know nothing of the other person. As you talk or witness each other in social situations, you begin to make judgements of the person. One person who has been in #DominateRadio a lot lately said "Tal" to me. I was elated to find another Gorean but actually he said he was taking a stab, but that my actions lent to the fact that he thought I would be Gorean (I took it as a compliment though I’m not sure if it was intended as such J). We assess situations and people and decide whether or not to include them further in our lives, if we have a choice in the matter, which SHOULD be the case. (Yes, some countries still have arranged marriages.) As we get to know the other person, we learn about them. This brings them to different levels based upon likes and dislikes. Let’s use an analogy of a ladder. We consider ourselves on rung 7 and all people we don’t know aren’t even on the ladder. As we get to know someone and like them, our minds bring them up the ladder, closer to us. The goal of the relationship then is to become equals and move up the ladder together. BDSM relationships begin much like any relationship. Each person being a separate entity, seeking the partner that matches their personality, likes, dislikes, etc. There is a lot of negotiation and discussion because BDSM has a plethora of avenues that people traverse. I don’t think it is possible to find two people who, at the very same time when meeting, have exactly all the same interests. During a relationship, each will probably try the other’s fetishes, exploring and understanding their partner more. So in the analogy of the ladder, a couple will not only become equals, but will discuss ahead to see which way the ladder is going to go and whether or not to traverse it together. The basis of a Gorean Master/slave relationship is much different in that there are fewer venues to walk. Girls are taught to recite this to themselves: He is Master, and I am Slave. He is owner, and I am owned. He commands, and I obey. He is to be pleased, and I am to please. Why is this? Because he is Master, and I am Slave.1 There is no negotiating or power struggle between the Master and slave. He is Master and she is slave or there is no relationship, period. The Master starts off on the ladder and is always several rungs ahead, leading the girl up one rung at a time. Only he knows where the ladder is going and she trusts his judgement. (Note: Realistically speaking, I caution all people in Gorean OR BDSM relationships to not walk into something blindly. Make certain you know who you are dealing with, along with references and LOTS of time in person.) This next quotes sums up the reasoning behind so many Goreans zealousness to proclaim the Gorean Master/slave relationship as the deepest one of all. "The case with slaves, such as you, my dear, is of course much different. The difference, however, is that respect and attention is not due to you, that it need not be accorded to you. You are slave. In actual practice, of course, masters tend to pay a great deal of attention to the thoughts and feelings of their lovely slaves. It is rewarding and delicious to do so. How wonderful it is to know another human being so intimately, especially one one owns. There are no secrets between masters and slaves. Her deepest thoughts and desires, as well as her most trivial fancies and observations, are open to him and, because he owns her, of great interest to him. A man is much more likely to be in-tensely fond of a girl he owns than of a free individual toward whom he stands in a mere contractual relationship. The latter he does not own

D/S LIFESTYLE Contract "B" For Male Dom Master & slave "Slavery" Contract Of my own free will and out of a desire to express my love and devotion to the man I love and adore, I offer myself in slavery to my Master for the period beginning on __________ and ending at noon on_____________. Although I consider myself to be a slave full-time to Master, during the time period expressed above, I will devote myself completely and totally to the pleasure and desires of my Master, without hesitation or consideration of myself or others. General Rules The slave agrees to obey her Master in all respects. her mind, body, heart and time belong to Him. The slave accepts the responsibility of using her safeword when necessary, and trusts implicitly in her Master to respect the use of that safeword. If a condition arises in which the slave needs to use the safeword or gesture, her Master will assess the situation, and determine an appropriate course of action. The slave shall keep her body available for the use of her Master at all times. In addition, the slave agrees that her Master possesses the right to determine whether others can use her body and what use they may put it to. The Master will discuss all such instances in advance with the slave, to be certain that such play with others will not violate any established limits. The slave shall demonstrate her acceptance of her role of service and availability at all times while at home and at other times and places specified by her Master. The slave acknowledges that her Master may use her body or mind in any manner He wishes within the parameters of safety. He may hurt her without reason to please Himself. The slave enjoys the right to cry, scream or beg, but accepts the fact that these heartfelt expressions will not affect her treatment. Further, she accepts that if her Master tires of her noise, he may gag her or take other actions to silence her. The slave will answer any questions put to her honestly and directly, and will volunteer any information her Master should know about her physical or emotional condition. While her Master expects His slave to speak honestly and forth rightly about anything that bothers her, she is not to interpret that as permission to whine or complain. she will phrase her concerns politely and respectfully, and then gracefully accept her Master's judgment in these matters without further complaint. The slave will always speak of her Master in terms of love and respect. She will address Him at all times as either "Master" or "Sir," ( see Public Rules of Conduct) The Master may give the slave "free periods" in His presence during which the slave may express herself openly and freely. There will be no punishments applied during "free periods." It is understood, however, that the slave will continue to address her Master with respect and love at all times and that deviations from this rule are subject to punishment at a later time. The slave agrees that severe punishment may be assessed for any infraction of the letter or spirit of their contract, and will accept the correction gratefully. The form and extent of the punishment shall be at the Master's pleasure, and the Master shall make it clear to the slave that she is being punished when punishment occurs. The Master shall endeavor not to inflict physical harm upon the slave that might require the attention of anyone outside the relationship. Master and slave agree that in extremes either may activate a free period by using the safeword. The free period will continue until both parties agree that the problem(s) concerned are resolved. The slave is permitted to engage in any and all activities not actively forbidden by their contract or by later edict of the Master. All rights and privileges not otherwise noted in this contract belong to the Master, and He may exercise them as He chooses. Private Rules of Conduct On days when her Master is at work, the slave will greet Him wearing her collar, wrist restraints, and a shirt belonging to her Master. She will wear no underclothes in His presence unless given permission. On days when the Master is home, the slave will wear whatever is deemed appropriate by her Master. When in the same room as her Master, the slave will ask permission before leaving the room, explain where she is going, and why. At mealtimes, the slave will serve her Master, and sit at His feet while He eats. Food for the slave will be given by the Master at His discretion. When speaking to her Master or being spoken to by Him, the slave will assume a demeanor of alert attention and will meet her Master's eyes directly, unless instructed to do otherwise. Public Rules of Conduct The slave will conduct herself at all times in such a manner as to not call attention to Master and slave. she will call her Master by His name only if the use of "Master" is inappropriate. The slave will defer to her Master in public. The slave may dress herself, but must seek approval of any clothing she wishes to wear in public. Unless specifically stated otherwise, the slave may not wear panties. Work Rules of Conduct No part of their agreement is intended to interfere with the slave's career. The Master wishes the slave to work hard and honestly, in general to conduct herself in a manner calculated to bring honor and respect to them both. During periods of work, the slave is permitted to schedule appointments, to dress in a manner appropriate to work, and to leave the house when necessary. During periods of work, the slave may answer the telephone and discuss business without the expressed permission of her Master. With my signature below, i agree to accept and obey all preceding rules as well as any rules my Master may choose to issue at a later date. I gratefully consign by body and soul to my Master for His pleasure and use for the contract period noted above. _______________________________ slave___________ date I accept My slave's desire to serve Me more fully, and take responsibility for her well-being, training and discipline to more perfectly serve My will. _____________________________ Master _________________ date

Accompanied by: Temporary Consensual "Master Contract" and Negotiated Boundaries Contract for the Enslavement Term. This entire three (3) contract package is known as the Enslavement Documents. Of my own free will, I ___________________________, herein known as the slave, hereby grant you, __________________________, herein known as the master, full ownership, care and use of both the slave's body and mind as of the ____ day of _____, 19___, at ____:____ am / pm _____, until the ____ day of ______, 19___, at ____:____ am / pm _____. This period of time will herein be known as the enslavement term. The slave will obey the master at all times and will wholeheartedly seek the master's comfort, pleasure and well-being, above all other considerations the slave may have. The slave agrees that the slave shall derive their own pleasures from accepting their part in the relationship described in the Enslavement Documents and that the slave will gladly accept the pleasures the master provides. The slave further agrees to confess the slave's desires for the master's consideration. Failing to do so, the master takes no responsibility in the consequences of the slave's failure to disclose desires, even if the slave is unable to communicate the slave's desires. The slave will strive diligently to re-mold the slave's body, habits, and attitudes in accordance with the master's desires. Also, the slave agrees to change the slave's actions and speech to express the slave's changed habits and attitudes. The slave will seek, during the enslavement term, to learn how to please the master better, and will gracefully accept any criticism in whatever form the master chooses, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The slave renounces all rights to privacy or concealment from the master. The slave will answer truthfully and completely, to the best of the slave's knowledge, any and all questions the master may ask of the slave, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The slave understands and agrees that any failure by the slave to comply fully with the master's desires shall be regarded as sufficient cause for any punishment the master deems appropriate, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The slave also understands and agrees that if at any time the master disregards the terms in the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the slave at that time and that time only can dissolve all contracts within the Enslavement Documents by uttering the termination word. The termination word, is the only safeword that exists during the enslavement term, since all limits of the slave are described in the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. If after the termination word is uttered more than once by the slave because the master has either continued to disregard the Negotiated Boundaries Contract or has repeatedly, in isolated situations, disregarded the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the slave has full legal right to press appropriate legal charges upon the master as prescribed by the slave's legal representative. Within the limits of the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the slave otherwise unconditionally accepts, as the master's right, anything the master may choose to do with the slave, whether as punishment, for the master's amusement, or for whatever purpose the mater desires, no matter how painful, unpleasant, or uncomfortable to the slave. The slave agrees to take all the experiences that occur during the enslavement term, that transpire in the relationship that has been described in the Enslavement Documents, as a chance to learn and grow, and use them to improve the relationship between the master and slave, both during the enslavement term possibly after the enslavement term. Signed by, _______________________________, the master, and signed by, _______________________________, the slave, dated this ____ day of ______, 19____. During the enslavement term, the slave places the following restrictions on the master, as negotiated boundaries that the master will not violate under any circumstances during the enslavement term. Both the master and slave understand and agree that if at any time the master disregards the terms in the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the slave at that time and that time only can dissolve all contracts in the Enslavement Documents by uttering the word _____________, herein known as the termination word. The termination word, is the only safeword that exists during the enslavement term, since all limits of the slave are described in the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. If after the termination word is uttered more than once by the slave because the master has either continued to disregard the Negotiated Boundaries Contract or has repeatedly, in isolated situations, disregarded the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the slave has full legal right to press appropriate legal charges upon the master as prescribed by the slave's legal representative. The master shall not: Signed by, _______________________________, the master, and signed by, _______________________________, the slave, dated this ____ day of ______, 19____. Of my own free will, I ___________________________, herein known as the master, hereby accept you, __________________________, herein known as the slave, as my full responsibility and care, of both the slave's body and mind as of the ____ day of ______, 19___, at ____:____ am / pm _____, until the ____ day of ______, 19___, at ____:____ am / pm _____. This period of time will herein be known as the enslavement term. The master will command the slave at all times and will expect the slave to seek the master's comfort, pleasure and well-being, above all other considerations that the slave may have. The master accepts no responsibility for the slave's pleasure during the relationship described in the Enslavement Documents, during the enslavement term. The master may, at the master's discretion, administer pain or pleasure at any time, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. Upon disclosure of the slave's desires for the master's consideration, the master may or may not grant those pleasures desired by the slave. If desires are not disclosed by the slave, the master takes no responsibility in the consequences of failure to disclose of the slave's desires even if the slave is unable to communicate those desires to the master. The master will re-mold the slave's body, habits, and attitudes to whatever the master desires, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. If the slave does not change the slave's actions and speech to express the slave's changed habits and attitudes, the master has every right to punish the slave for not adhering to the Temporary Consensual "Slave Contract" in any way the master sees fit, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The master expects the slave to learn how to please the master better. The master may instruct the slave in any way the master feels appropriate, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The master may administer criticism to the slave in any way the master feels appropriate. If the slave does not understand the criticism, the way it has been communicated by the master, the master accepts no responsibility for the consequences of the slave not understanding, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The master expects all rights to privacy or concealment of the slave to be revoked to the master. The master has the right to ask any question of the slave and has the right to expect the slave to answer truthfully and completely, to the best of the slave's knowledge. If the master suspects that the slave is not disclosing the best answer to the slave's knowledge, the master may interrogate the slave to acquire the best answer to the slave's knowledge, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The master understands and agrees that any failure by the slave to comply fully with the master's desires shall be regarded as sufficient cause for any punishment the master deems appropriate, within the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. The master also understands and agrees that if at any time the master disregards the terms in the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the slave at that time and that time only can dissolve all contracts within the Enslavement Documents by uttering the termination word. The termination word, is the only safeword that exists during the enslavement term, since all limits of the slave are described in the Negotiated Boundaries Contract. If after the termination word is uttered more than once by the slave because the master has either continued to disregard the Negotiated Boundaries Contract or has repeatedly, in isolated situations, disregarded the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the slave has full legal right to press appropriate legal charges upon the master as prescribed by the slave's legal representative. Within the limits of the Negotiated Boundaries Contract, the master has the right to do anything the master may choose to do with the slave, whether as punishment, for the master's amusement, or for whatever purpose the mater desires, no matter how painful, unpleasant, or uncomfortable to the slave. The master agrees to take all the experiences that occur during the enslavement term, that transpire in the relationship that has been described in the Enslavement Documents, as a chance to learn and grow, and use them to improve the relationship between the master and slave, both during the enslavement term and possibly after the enslavement term. Signed by, _______________________________, the master, and signed by, _______________________________, the slave, dated this ____ day of ______, 20____.