ya know i've sat in many chatrooms over the years and listened to all the misconceptions that people have about what a true Dom/sub relationship is....not only do i practice the lifestyle online but i do it as well in r/l with my wife....a true Dom/Domne is one that protects their sub...takes care of their desires to be treated submissive...not to treat with them as doormats and order them to do things that the sub does not wish to do...a true Dom/Domne talks with the sub and sets limits on how far the sub is willing to go...and does not cross those limits....yes a sub may serve their Master/Mistress but should not be forced to be a complete slave that is not allowed to have a thought of their own...myself i love a submissive that is a brat...both my r/l and online subs are total brats and love to keep me on my toes and i wouldn't have them any other way...i love them both to death and would do anything for either of them....in case your wondering yes my online sub is different from my r/l sub but they both mean the world to me....a quote was shared with me one day and its so true...A DOMinant must SUBmit to their basic instincts • • • A SUBmissive must DOMinate their fear • • • So who is the DOM and who is the SUB? and i may seem like an easy going Dom....been told i'm also not a true one because i tend to let my subs get away with things others can't....but you know i've never heard a complaint from any of the many subs i've had or trained...they have all loved the way i do things and continue to come to me constantly....so to all those wannabe Dom/Domnes out there do a search on google or wherever and learn what a true Dom/Domne is and how they should act and respect all submissives....and anyone wishing to comment or have a discussion go for it...i'm the first to admit there are no two Dom/Domnes that are alike or any two subs are identical...and i'm always open to sharing conversation or ideas on this subject...i'm not a wannabe i live this lifestyle 24/7/365...well i'll quit rambling for now...have a nice day
