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Definition: [Domination] is the desire to exert control over a consenting partner for the purpose of mutual gratification.


Now what does this truely mean for most....well its unfortunate but most out there take this to mean a power play....and that its not for mutual gratification only for there own...they do not take into account the other personthat is there...thinking only of themselves.

 

Now I'm not going to say that everyone does this...there are those that are true unto the lifestyle in which W/we live, and everyday is a learning experience. No one knows all there is to this life.

 

But I digress in what I'm speaking of....I know most of Y/you already know this but its always good to revisit and refresh upon the basics otherwise sometimes W/we lose sight of things and lose the way.

 

Now there are many different forms and ways of Domination...its different to each C/couple and how they wish to portray the lifestyle in T/there relationship. It can be as simple as some added fun in the bedroom or to the extent of the basis of total power transference and living it 24/7.

 

But...domination is not just the power and control that one has over another...but within its truest essence is the the Dominant is the role of Teacher, Guide, Friend as well as Lover....it is There duty to help the submissive/slave find themselves within there submission and there true freedom within it, and its not just a sexual exploration...though its unfortunate that those that do not know the lifestyle or have not taken the time to at least have a general knowledge of it seem to think that its nothing but a kinky way of sex.

 

Doms are meant to be guides in all aspects of life...so that the submissive can know themselves fully both inside and out to the depths of there being. Its this path that W/we have been called to...that W/we wish to explore. It is an understanding of self that surpasses what most will know within there lives and I believe its that which scares most away from the life. Because they do not know or do not think they can handle that kind of understanding.

 

The basis of all Doms....understanding, openness in both mind and spirit, communication and trust....and that goes for the submissives as well...these are the vital and most needed building blocks of not just a relationship in the lifestyle but any relationship but more so for a D/s style of life. Otherwise its going to fail before it begins. Now I won't say I'm the end all know all...I'm still learning every day...but these are a few of My philosophical outlooks upon the basics of BDSM and D/s...feel free to comment if Y/you like...I'm always open to feedback and other outlooks upon the Life.

 

Be well.

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