I had been living with my girlfriend and and was raising her ten month old baby as my own. She broke up with me three days ago and now I am crushed from having this child removed from my life. I discovered today that she had been cheating on me which I had suspected but walked in on him with her two days after we broke up. The reason we broke up is because I accused her of cheating on me after a month and a half of no sex out of nowhere added to not wanting touched or kissed and dissapearing all night. When I confronted her I accused her but offered to work it out. Guys this is what happens when you try to help out someone with a child. Not only do you get the pain of losing the girl, but also the child which hurts a real man much worse. And ladies I know there are some of you with kids that this does not apply to but I will never become involved with a child that quickly again as the pain of losing that child is worse than losing a girl has ever or will ever be.
