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A Lesson for ALL of us

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.' One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend. He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him. Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.' This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side no matter what the situations. Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven. Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they're barren. Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets. Before whining about the distance you drive - Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet. Before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak. Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat. And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down – Put a smile on your face and thank GOD you're alive, still around and have ones that love you, will be there for you no matter what and would do anything for you. And when you are tired and complain about your job – Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job. The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have. This tidbit brought to you by PeggySue*treehugger*
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THINK IT's OK??

Think its OK to boss a girl around? Slap her around a few times and teach her a lesson? Photobucket She's just a dumb "bitch" a "slut". Photobucket No! Shes human being, a girl that deserves to be loved and respected. Not used and thrown out like a piece of trash. Photobucket A "man" should NEVER hit a woman. Photobucket And should never force his girl to have sex with him, thats not something you do to the person you supposedly love. Photobucket So if you're against Spousal Abuse please repost this! And if you don't you're not going to die or be raped by a toaster, you're just cold at heart. And if your a guy thats man enough to repost this GOOD for you. Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket (repost of original by '♥ñàûgħŧ¥§m!£ê♥ ...I MAY NOT BE PERFECT, BUT I AM ALL I GOT...' on '2008-02-07 05:58:29')

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT

this was sent to me by a dear friend and im posting it here for TWO reasons. 1. because all though I was sending it to all my family I think many on my friend list deserve it as well or quite frankly based on current happenings NEED to hear it! 2. Im still too damn sick and lazy to not forget someone who should have it. *smooches* ~Temptress~ One day someone special will be gone. And on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of your room, you might be struck with the pain of learning that sometimes in life the most important things get lost along the way. No more hugs, no more lucky moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat, No more "just one minute." No more smiles, laughs or silly jokes Sometimes, what we care about the most goes away. never to return before we can say good-bye, Say "I Love You" to that special friend or partner. We all need to feel love, 'be' loved by friends or someone close. So while we have it . . it's best we love it And care for it and fix it when it's broken and take good care of it when it's sick. This is true for marriage .... and friendships ... And children being children; And dogs with bad hips; And aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, Because we cherish them! Some things we keep -- like a best friend who moved away or a classmate we grew up with. There are just some things that make us happy, No matter what. Life is important, and so are the people we know. And so, we keep them. I received this from someone today who thought I was a 'KEEPER"! Then I sent It to the people I Think of in the same way! Now it's your turn to send this to all those people who Are "keepers" Your a very special person..............

Alijah James Mullis

Words cannot begin to express the deep sense of loss and grieving one must go through to lose a child in such a horrific manner. Sometimes, when one person is missing or lost, it seems as though the whole world has been depopulated. At 3 months old, Alijah James is larger than life, and his passing has struck a chord in the hearts of everyone who has followed him since before his birth. The gift of life is always magical, and a time filled with wonder, as are the early years of a baby's life. To have that stripped away from him at such an indefensible, early age, is unfathomable. None of us know what happened that morning, and perhaps we may never know. We know that a baby died Tuesday morning for no earthly reason. We do not know the true dynamics of that morning. We do not need to become a lynch mob in attack of a man whom the police have not named a suspect in his death. Nobody even knows if TJ Mullis is dead or alive. At this moment in time, we know NOTHING, other than the world is lessened by the loss of a baby who was never given a chance at life. Instead of angry finger pointing, we need to take this time to gather near to us our loved ones, and let them know what they mean to us. We never know what tomorrow may hold. I am not posting music in this blog, because I feel that in reading it silently, it should allow Alijah the moments of silence he deserves. Alijah.jpg

(repost of original by '~Slave Princess~I'm Your Angel~' on '2008-02-01 14:28:00')

HELP FIND THIS FUCKER!!!!

PLEASE READ - this is for .. I Love Sporks
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Please use this pic in ur default to show support, u may rip it or save and re-upload it. thanks to Juicy the bouncer for making it ... tn_569406071.png she writes in her original bulletin ... I do not want condolences about this situation, I am posting this bulletin with a link that includes pictures of the man who murdered my 3 month old son in hopes that maybe someone has seen him somewhere....anywhere 944748193.jpg please take the time to go to the link and watch the news video which includes a description of the car he was driving and his picture...If anyone knows anything at all, please dont contact me...call 409-771-7488 please repost the hell out of this so as many people as possible can see this. and if someone could sticky this for me so even more people can see it i would really appreciate it thank you everyone this includes the news report video The News Report, please watch this is a picture of the man who murdered my baby... 2759273914.jpg Another pic of him here These next lot are from another bulletin about it by ღ~*Miss'B *~ღ. I can't sticky both bulletins so I've combined them instead ... Photobucket Photobucket I would like to ask you to please keep one of our fellow Fubarians in your thoughts and prayers, I love Sporks could really use our prayers. Tuesday Jan 28,2008 her three month old son was taken away from her, and is now in Heaven. Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket

BUYING A MIRACLE

I'd LIKE THIS BACK IF IT APPLIES A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes. Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door. She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it! 'And what do you want?' the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages,' he said without waiting for a reply to his question. 'Well, I want to talk to you about my brother,' Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. 'He's really, really sick..and I want to buy a miracle.' 'I beg your pardon?' said the pharmacist. 'His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?' 'We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you,' the pharmacist said, softening a little 'Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs.' The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, 'What kind of a miracle does your brother need?' ' I don't know,' Tess replied with her eyes welling up. I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money.' 'How much do you have?' asked the man from Chicago 'One dollar and eleven cents,' Tess answered barely audibly. 'And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.' 'Well, what a coincidence,' smiled the man. 'A dollar and eleven cents---the exact price of a miracle for little brothers. ' He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said 'Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you need.' That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed free of charge and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well. Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place. 'That surgery,' her Mom whispered. 'was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?' Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents....plus the faith of a little child. In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need. A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law. I know you'll keep the ball moving! Here it goes. Throw it back to someone who means something to you! A ball is a circle, no beginning, no end. It keeps us together like our Circle of Friends. But the treasure inside for you to see is the treasure of friendship you've granted to me. Today I pass the friendship ball to you. Pass it on to someone who is a friend to you. MY OATH TO YOU... When you are sad.....I will dry your tears. When you are scared.....I will comfort your fears. When you are worried.....I will give you hope. When you are confused.....I will help you cope. And when you are lost....And can't see the light, I shall be your beacon.....Shining ever so bright. This is my oath.....I pledge till the end. Why you may ask?.....Because you're my friend. Signed: GOD INSTANTLY WHEN YOU RECEIVE THIS LETTER, YOU ARE REQUESTED TO SEND IT TO AT LEAST 10 PEOPLE, INCLUDING THE PERSON WHO SENT IT TO YOU.

SO SAD SO UNFAIR

December 4th, 2007, Jessica Sherwood had to do something no mother should ever have to do.
At 2:29 pm Jessica made a very tough, but the right decision to take her little 3 month old daughter off life support.
In memory of little London Marie, i thought id start a little forward..
Jessica had a message that i want every one to know..

This is what jessica said:

IF NE ONE HAS KIDS MAKE SURE U KEEP THEM WIT U THE WHOLE TIME DNT GIVE THEM TO NE ONE THAT U DNT TRUST..... TRUST ME I THOUGHT I TRUSTED JOSH..... BUT NOW AS OF 12-4-07 AT 2:29AM SHE IS GONE.... MY ONE AND ONLY BABY....... AND HE IS GUNNA PAY FOR EVER EVEN IF HE GETS OUTTA JAIL SCOTT FREE HE WILL BE DEAD NO MATTER WAT......... TO ALL MY FRIENDS AND THAT KNO LONDON I AM VERY ANGRY AND UPSET I LOST THE LOVE OF MY LIFE MY BABY GIRL.... SHE DIED ON HER 3MONTH BDAY........

SHE HAD 6 FRACTURED RIBS..... BOTH OF HER LEGS WERE FRACTURED.... AND HER BRAIN WAS SO DAMANAGED THAT IF SHE WERE TO LIVE SHE WOULD BE A VEGETABLE.... SO I DID WAT WAS RIGHT AND BEST FOR HER AND TOOK HER OFF LIFE SUPPORT...

THATS WAT U CALL SHAKEN BABY SYNDROM REMEMBER THAT...

For those of you who dont know what Shaken Baby Syndrome is..read this

Shaking, jerking and jolting can cause blood vessels in the head to tear or burst.

Shaken Baby Syndrome is the shaking of an infant or child by the arms, legs, or shoulders with or without impact of the head. This trauma can result in bleeding and brain injury with no outward signs of abuse.


Often frustrated caregivers feel that shaking a baby or small child is a harmless way to make the child stop crying. However, a baby's brain and blood vessels are vulnerable to whiplash motions, such as shaking, jerking, jolting, and impact. The neck muscles of an infant or small child are weak, so the child's head is relatively heavy and the neck cannot support the stress of shaking or impact.

Shaking a very young child, with or without impact of the head, can cause irreversible brain damage, blindness, cerebral palsy, hearing loss, spinal cord injury, seizures, learning disabilities, and even death. It is tragic that healthy, intelligent babies are suffering these disabilities simply because their caregivers don't know about the dangers associated with Shaken Baby Syndrome.

An estimated 1,200 to 1,400 cases of Shaken Baby Syndrome (SBS) occur each year in the United States. Only 1 out of 4 babies dies of Shaken Baby Syndrome. HOWEVER, the other three babies will need ongoing medical attention for the rest of their short lifespans

London in the hospital
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London after she passed

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You dont have to foward this, your not going to have bad luck in your love life, your not going to die tomorrow, and your not going to get good news at 11:11. If you have any heart at all, you would foward this.

Rest in Peace London Marie Sherwood
September 4th, 2007-December 4th, 2007

KELSEY DIED.....











MAKE SURE YOU WATCH THE VIDEO AT THE END






Cause some dont get that chance...........

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SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.

I didn't mean to spill my milk at dinner last night.

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SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.

I didn't mean to play with my dolls that long.

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SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.
I didn't mean to be a mistake.. why can't I eat?

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SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.

i didn't mean to pee in my pants yesterday.

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SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.
I didn't mean to cry when my bath water was too hot.
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SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.

I love you! Why don't you love me back? Why is everything I do wrong?


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1,504,000 CHILDREN GET ABUSED BY THEIR GUARDIANS. IT'S NOT RIGHT. THEY SHOULDN'T HAVE TO SUFFER. IF YOU THINK
CHILD ABUSE IS WRONG YOU CAN HELP BY RE-POSTING.

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if you dont repost you have no heart



REPOST THIS AS "KELSEY DIED"

I AM THIS GIRL!!!!!!

Subject I AM that girl!! Body: *Im the girl who will put her head on your shoulder, not because I'm sleepy , but because I want to be closer to you... *Im the girl who likes to be kissed in the rain, more than inside your bedroom or in an expensive resturaunt... *Im the girl who says "ok, but you owe me..." jokingly not because I actually want something, but because it means I get to spend more time with you... *Im the girl who is incredibly picky, but when I find someone I like, I want to spend the whole night curled up in their arms... *Im the girl who never forgets all the sweet little things you do for me... *Im the girl who once I let you into my heart, there's always a place there with your name on it, and even if we spend time apart, I'm the girl who never forgets you. *Im the girl who loves to end a hug with a kiss... *Im the girl who you can talk to about anything... *Im the girl who laughs at your jokes... *Im the girl who will brag about you to all of my friends... *Im the girl who will listen to you talk... *Im the girl who loves it when you hug me for no apparent reason... *Im the girl who loves it when you hug me from behind or kiss me on the cheek... *Im the girl who loves it when you introduce me to your friends as your GIRLFRIEND... *Im the girl who loves the feeling when you take me by the hand without saying a word... *Im the girl who loves you for you, and doesn't care what other people say about us... *Im the girl who never gets enough sleep at night because I lay awake thinking of you for so long, and then when I finally fall to sleep, I dream of you... SWEET HEARTED GIRLS: If you are this girl, repost this saying "I'm this girl" DUDES: If you want this girl, repost "I want this girl" LUCKY BASTARDS: repost "I have this girl" UNLUCKY GUYS: repost "I had this girl, once. I want ther back"

RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONSHIPS!!! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
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