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Velvet Love's blog: "Attention Guys"

created on 11/13/2006  |  http://fubar.com/attention-guys/b24331

Lies and Head games.....

Ok so I was going to write this on Wednesday night, but I didn't get around to it. I was too busy talking to someone who is a good person, unlike the majority of the people who I seem to run into. Within a 24 hour period I found out that 2 so-called "friends" were lying to me. Guys, why do so many of you feel the need to lie and play head games? I am so fucking sick of the lies and the head games, I am ready to tell every guy who speaks to me to fuck off. LIE #1: A "friend" has been telling me from the begining that he had a heart attack, is in the final stages of cancer, and is a widower, losing his wife and son to a wreck 7 years ago. I felt horrible, I lost my Grandma to cancer last year. Cancer is not, I repeat, is NOT something to joke around about. He told me he is in the hospital. And I believed him, but suddenly things became suspicious. He couldn't give me the phone number to his room, he said his room doesn't have a phone. He is online really late at night, if he is in the hospital I don't see how he is on at the times he is .He said he wanted to borrow a cell phone and call me, and I said that hospitals here don't allow cell phones. When ever I questioned him about the times he is online, or using a cell phone, etc. He always said he gets special privelages. }:o| Whenever I'd try to talk to him about things, such as Scotland, where he claims to have been born, he always changes the subject. And he was sending me pics. First he said he took them for me, then when I asked how he was doing that in the hospital he said they was old. My opinion, he is married and unhappy and don't have the balls to leave, or be honest with his "friends". Instead he claims to be sick for attention, because believe me, he has got plenty of it. LIE #2: Another "friend" whom I have been talking to for several months now told on himself last night. We live in the same town, and had discussed the possibility of dating. He claimed to be a single father of his little girl. And that her mouth was around, but made it sound like she didn't get involved in her daughter's life. Well when it came time for us to meet, he couldn't because "his daughter didn't want to". I let it go, even though I thought it was bullshit that he lets his preschool age daughter tell him what to do. We did have a little spat when I "thought" there was a special someone coming into my life, but we worked it out and remained friends. Last night he was talking about how stressful his living situation is. I said I understood about stressful living situations blah, blah, blah. Anyway, we talked more and he finally ended up saying that the mother does indeed live there with him and his daughter. And that they get along for their daughter. I asked if they was together and he said sometimes. So I asked why he lied to me. He said when he tells people she is still there they stop talking to him. I said they weren't true friends then. And I told him if he had just been honest to begin with everything would have been fine. I don't have a problem with being FRIENDS with someone who is in a relationship. But since I wasn't important enough to be told the truth from the beginning, then not to bother apologizing. I never lied to him about anything, and never did anything to deserve to be treated the way he treated me. Let me just say this.... IF YOU CAN'T BE HONEST WITH ME, OR WANT TO PLAY HEAD GAMES, FUCK OFF AND GO BOTHER SOMEONE ELSE AND LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE... I've been lied to enough, and I dealt with the head games enough, especially while I was married. So grow up and be a man if you are going to talk to me. If you can't do that, don't bother....
Ok, for starters, I do NOT find myself attractive at all. My opinion is I am fat and ugly. So I really don't understand the responses I have got on my pics since I joined this site. The only two physical features I like about myself are my eyes, and my hair. My eyes seem to grab the attention of a lot of people, but they usually only get a good look at them in pictures, because I do not make eye contact with people. And my hair, its long and I love it. Its almost so long that I sit on it. However, its getting incredibily thin thanks to my medications. Anyway, I have been single since I left my exhusband in January of 2005. And it doesn't look like that is going to change any time soon. But honestly, I am to the point that I am giving up even trying to find some one because I am tired of all the head games. So, I would like for some of the guys on here to explain something to me. Why is it, that I have guys talk to me online and tell me how attractive and sexy I am, and how much they want to meet me, and want to fuck me, etc; yet I can't seem to get the attention of anyone in person? Yes I know I posted pics showing off my nipple rings, but even before that, I had guys reacting that way to me. So some one please tell me, why guys can tell me how attracted they are to me over the computer, yet no one I meet is interested in me. Also, all the guys who tell me they are so attracted to me, live too far away for there to be any possible chance of anything happening. Or if they do live close enough to meet, all they do is play games and come up with excuses why we can't meet. Aren't there any real men left out there who want something more than just head games and cyber sex? I am going on almost 2 years of being single and a year and a half without any sexual encounters, and to be honest, I am tried of being alone. But I want someone who is looking for more than just someone to play games with. I've had more than my share of that.
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