I just need to get this out there because it has bugged me ever since I decided to put myself back out there in the dating world again. I think this is why I took a long vacation from it in the first place.
What is up with guys these days? When do guys grow up to be gentlemen? I didn't know I was still in the teenage world of dating.
Why assume that if you take a girl out to the movies,dinner or buy her a drink she is going to sleep with you? Ran across this problem the last couple times and hell I dont have WHORE stamped on my forhead. I like sex as much as the next girl but to me I HAVE to be in a loving relationship. End of story. If you don't like me enough to wait for it I guess that is your fault for not getting to know me because I kinda rock :) Not conceided, just the truth.
I am very honest and forthright about things and if I think you are trying too get in my pants, I will let you know loud and clear, it aint happining! I will not subject myself to being another knotch on your bed post. If you ask me out to dinner, I will go but it isn't to sleep with you, it is to honestly to get to know you to see if I like your personality or to figure out if we will clash.
What is so wrong with getting to know someone before you share something so intimate with another person? Arghhhhhh!
If I wanted just sex, hell I would go downtown and pick up some random drunk guy. That is not what I am looking for.
I think I am getting up there in age now where I am thinking about long term relationships more and more.
And before you judge I was in one for 11 years. Didn't work out, left and back in the dating game.
Btw..what is up with mind games too. I have never had so many guys play these with me in my life. If you mean something, come out and say it. I expect honest and integrity!
Sorry had to get that out there. Thanks for listening to me bitch....
