Let me begin by saying that I understand society as a whole and women in particular, have been attempting to emasculate men for some 40 years now. And, what a mess this has created. Everyone is losing their "place" in this society.
I also realize that a lot of women prefer a man they can "control". That is fine, for them, but I am not one of them.
I like men who are sure of themselves, confident in their masculinity, and unafraid to approach the world with their purely male attitude. The kind of man who gets dirty and cleans up with just a shower and a shave.
Any man who takes longer to get ready to go out than I do, is just way too high maintenance for me. If it takes you more than an hour in front of the mirror, you are either a metrosexual or a narcisist...and in either case, my patience just doesn't stretch that far.
I know you've had it drilled into you that you have to be politically correct, but I'm here to tell you that I'd rather hear what you really think...no holds barred. So, I may not agree, but you can bet your balls I'll respect you for it!
I think that a woman's true power in society was in the raising of the children and caring for her family. What an impact we had on society when we still believed the children were our future! When we worked hard and constant to shape the future by pouring our knowledge and hearts into our children. When our offspring learned respect at home, by the respect we showed our husbands and our family by making them the priorities.
I, for one know that I'll never be happy with a man who lacks the substance to step up and take his place as the head of the home. But, with the way we are changing as a society and family units, I fear the real men may be as extinct as the dinosaurs.
