Well, since I am not new at this anymore I thought that I would update about me! As before I am a 32 year old single mother of 4 beautiful boys CJ-10,Austin-7, Trystian-5 and last but not least Dylan-4! If you have checked out my page my boys are the biggest part of my life! They are the reason I get up every morning and the reason I work everyday!! I bartend fulltime at the Aroma Park American Legion where I have been for the last 3 years, not my permanent job, but it does pay the bills! To let you all know that I am a mother first before anything else!! I have been divorced for about 5 years now! I am a really independent person, I live with my four children and my friend Michelle whom takes care of my children while I am workin! She is really good with my kids! And as far as a man in my life, I am guessing I just haven't found the right man to fit in my life! I don't look because I believe that it will happen at a point in my life when all is good! I am a good friend to a great group of people whom I love spending time with! As you see in my slides my kids and my friends!! Well, I have met a great deal of good people here, and hope to meet many more! So, feel free to chat with me I can be a little shy at first but once I get to know you that tends to change! I also have a myspace if you ever want to check me out there just look under screen name--apalbartender. You will find out the same things here as there! I am also on yahoo so if IM me if you feel you would like to chat! Also, apalbartender on yahoo! Well, I think that I have babled on enough if you have any ?'s or just want to chat Buzz me and if I am around I will.