An Open Letter to Whomever………
Sometimes it can be very easy to think that we are truly in love with someone, even though this love may be misplaced!!
Is it a case of yes maybe once we loved that person for what ever reason and even though they may have changed for what ever reason we still tend to try and see what was once there instead of accepting what there is now?
We all change over time, some get stronger and some get weaker, the strong stand up and fight were as the weak become more and more dependent on those around them to even get them through the day….
Looking around I have seen, do see and will always see the varying degrees in all people and one of the things that always amazes me is that sometimes it is almost like a drug to some when they feel they have deep feelings for someone whom they once loved because they remember how it made them feel at the time yet when that feeling was broken because at one time or another they had been let down or even hurt by the one they cared for there is a compulsion of instead of letting go and moving on, there is a deep desire to have that feeling once more, until the next time when they have been broken once more.
There has to be a breaking point whereby you have to say, NO enough is enough but when is that time, how do you know when that time is, or do you ever know, until it is too late and you find you have been torn inside out and left a heap on the floor because you have been broken by the very one you felt you loved.
