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SOULFLOWER's blog: "acceptance."

created on 09/10/2010  |  http://fubar.com/acceptance/b336098

acceptance.

few realize this word. ACCEPTANCE, means to be unconditional taken for who they are or what they stand for. Too many judgements pass without so much as a thought required to think of what it may be truly like to be "in someone else's shoes". We make "assumptions" based on looks, appearance, and attitudes, but these are merely NOT enough "grounds" to decide if a person is truly worthy of our respect. If we dont learn acceptance at a point to where a person may be in their lives, then how can we make assumpmtions, or "judgements" on whether we can befriend them or not? HAVE we walked in someone elses shoes? people do wrong, they make mistakes, but where is forgiveness in a persons heart? Where is love and unconditional "help"....to a point....mind you, towards a person who may be lost, lost to the point of no return, lost to the point of just no longer caring anymore. We get angry at people simply because they gave us a "stare"across the room, or simply because they seem "stupid" in our eyes, but i can tell you this...everyone has made bad, or wrong choices, mistakes, failings, and weaknesses, that seem to have no recourse for them in the eyes of others. Where are they to go? Who are they to seek for counceling or help, or just one who will step out enough to make themselves look "stupid" enough to reach out a hand or help? Noone. people walk around lonely, tired, surrendered, just looking for ANYTHING to appease what they have gone through, or what they are going through. I have been labeled stupid. I have done foolish things, things that most or certain people would consider TOTALLY OUT OF MY CHARACTER,but instead of caring eyes, i got judgements, for doing the very same things that most people already do....over and over and over again. What separates a class of people in the eyes of others, when theyre opinions mean nothing? why nothing? Because for certain ones, they are doing the very same "mistakes" themselves. so why do i have to be persecuted for doing things, not very harmful, but not registered in the minds of those who think they know who i truly am, and who think they know or understand what is really going on with me. People are quick, QUICK, TO JUDGE, SOME EVEN "LIE IN WAIT FOR IT", LIKE A POUNCING TIGER OR A SNAKE SLITHERING THROUGH JUST TO KNOW OR "CATCH" VERY CAUTIOUSLY SOMEONE, TO TRAP IN THEIR TINY LITTLE SNARE. WORDS ARE SNARES, RUMORS, ARE SNARES, AS WELL AS ARGUMENTS, UNNECESSARY ARGUMENTS, THE KIND THEY MAKE CERTAIN PEOPLE LOOK GOOD OR POWERFUL. I HAVE NEVER BEEN ONE QUICK TO JUDGE. BUT WHEN I HAVE IT HAS BEEN THROUGH ADAPTING A "KEEN EYE, LEARNING THAT PERSONS TRUE INTENT, WHICH I FIND OUT HAS BEEN RECKLESSLY FROM THE BEGIINING. Poeple truly dont care about others...they care merely about themselves....ill-gotten gain at your expense and mine. I have learned this over time...though it took me making some of the very same mistakes and "judgements", that they themselves have made. Thats how i learned. People say you better take "my" advice and in so try to "prevent" things from happening, but i didnt take advice. On one hand im sorry i didnt, BUT ON ANOTHER IM GLAD THAT I DID NOT....THOUGH THE ADVICE WAS GOOD AND WOULD HAVE KEPT ME FROM HARM. IVE LEARNED THAT "HIND-SIGHT" IS AND CAN BE A MUCH BETTER TEACHER TO THOSE WHO, LIKE ME ARE "STUBBORN", AND NEED TO LEARN THE HARD WAY FOR THEMSELVES. I HAVE ENJOYED THE THINGS IVE DONE, THOUGH HARSHLY TALKED ABOUT FOR IT. I WOULDINT TRADE IT FOR MUCH OF ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD, SIMPLY BECAUSE, UNTIL YOU KNOW THE SHOES OF ANOTHER....TRULY, AND LEARN HOW TO CARE BECAUSE NOW YOUVE "BEEN THERE", HOW CAN YOU ACCEPT ANOTHER WITHOUT FORMALLY JUDGING THEM FOR SOMETHING YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT. I AM JUST WRITING, SO NOONE GET "JUMPY" ON ME...LOL, BUT JUST EXPRESSING MY HEART AND MIND TO YOU, SIMPLY WRITING THINGS THAT I HAVE LEARNED AND THAT I THOUGHT I COULD SHARE WITH YOU, SO THANKS FOR READING MY BLOG, AND TAKE CARE TO BE MINDFUL OF WISE WORDS AND A PERSON WHO IS JUST LIKE YOU...LEARNING. THANKS, LOVE AND PEACE TO ALL.



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